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So what's the best way to describe your fetish for pretty feet? Just this weekend I described it as a "weakness" for pretty feet to a new woman i'm seeing Kat. Last weekend I described it as a "thing" for pretty feet and mentioned that I gave the best foot massages to Syd. But only to chics with cute feet. Then I further let her know that she had to earn the massage. I've done it countless ways but these are the most recent. Here is one other: " I hope you don't have bear paws for feet or our relationship is over before we start" The above statement works well with women that have good self esteem and take care of their feet. It also helps if she like you too.
How do you guys break that ice? For me it's important to gauge what her attitude is like toward one of my passions early on. There are always plenty of fish in the sea. Especially in Scottsdale AZ and Tempe!
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quote:Originally posted by GQguy: How do you guys break that ice?
depends on the scenario or the girl, but say for a stranger in a parking lot who I've followed out of walmart:
"curious maam, where do you get your nails done?"
or a more direct approach:
"hey gotta question, what size shoe do you wear?"
two great icebreakers to get women to pose their feet privately for your perversions (after you get a quick chance to explain the off the wall questions).
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I usually just say I like feet, or have a little thing for feet. I just leave it at that unless they probe me for details.
Rarely will I just offer up such info unless the context of the conversation warrants. It comes off way more natural and appropriate then.
The hi my name is "insert name" followed up too soon with I have a thing for feet bit is a sure fire way to be labeled a creep more often than necessary.
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I wait until I feel that she is very comfortable with me and has some sense of my character; only then do I mention it and I'm very frank about it. I've never brought it up in casual conversation.
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I'll have to take notes from you guys if the day comes that I'm ever single again. Like when I'm 94 and I outlive my old lady! Grabbing a notepad...
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GQ, i love how you call it a thing or a weakness. i think the word 'fetish' conjures ALOT of negative thoughts. i told one potential swinger playmate that i had a foot fetish and my wife told me after that i should say i have a preference or i like pretty feet and that telling a girl that i have a foot fetish can come across a little creepy.. and she is 110% understanding and encouraging about it.
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Just be happy LaDaemon that you are out of the dating scene. Its not as glamorious as these studs make it out to be. At least you have a steady and safe flow of foot activity right where you are now !!!
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I have always just said I appreciate pretty feet and only mention it is sexual when I plan on getting into their socks. It is not something everyone needs to know. It has never just come up in conversation either. Maybe someone can steer me towards girls who readily talk about that stuff because I haven't found them.
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quote:Originally posted by ozboy: Just be happy LaDaemon that you are out of the dating scene. Its not as glamorious as these studs make it out to be. At least you have a steady and safe flow of foot activity right where you are now !!!
Definitely wasn't knocking it. I have been out of the dating scene for 18 years now. It does make a guy like myself wonder how foolish I would appear to have to thrust myself back into that after being married for a long while.
Two of my buddies are recently divorced and one is married again to a 20 something and the other is dating a 20 something. Their new gals ain't hot at all either. Just young. That reminds me of the line from a movie: "If she was any younger you'd be dating sperm!"
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: There are always plenty of fish in the sea.
I know this is an old topic and all, but that statement makes me feel like asking, are all the fish the same? As in, am I deluded if I feel that one girl is somehow special?
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Actually they start the conversation with asking me what do I like about women, and I turn it to what I do not like, and that is unkept or not cared for feet, and then I'll say I LOVE well cared feet....and that is usually a turn on for them, knowing that a guy appreciates the effort they make to take care of their feet.
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I might make a compliment on their feet--"Nice toenails"--and if they ask if I have a thing for feet, I'll come clean!
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I don't randomly blurt shit like that out to someone I don't know or have just met. Guys here wonder why they get bad reactions or they call the woman close minded when they don't like the comment. Randomly saying "cute ass" or "I have a thing for tits" is basically what your saying...so why do guys seem dumbfounded by girls that give bad reactions?
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