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i find an interesting trend.. the younger the lady, the more apt she is to know and spot you (no matter how careful you are) but won't make as big a deal as one who is older. however, older women who have passed their hangups on the topic are more discreet with you about your foot fetish and more understanding.
the other trend i've noticed, the more modern the woman, the more she's aware of your staring. some gals from other countries (usually religious or conservative countries) tend to be more oblivious or confused at the attention given. but that doesn't stay that way long.
being that feet are so far below your average eye level, it's very easy to spot that you're looking down at feet. the only way to not get noticed is if her head is not facing you and she's not looking at you. other than that, she'll spot you quick fast!
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Well take a step back and read what you put. In innocence, I'd assume one of two things: you were gay or had a foot fetish...it's not a thing non-fetishists would notice/care about. It may have been more blatant than you think...
More subtlety would be "I like a girl with well-kept nails" orrrrrr "I like a girl who takes care of her hands and feet - poor grooming is a big turn-off for me."
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Contrary to popular thought of course
What brought me to this conclusion? Well many of us think that we're very subtle about displaying our love for female feet. There are all sorts of stories about guys sneaking around to satisfy their fetish..a stolen glance, a subtle comment, that oh so clever compliment "you look great barefoot" ect are all loud giveaways.
So my pof.com profile has a line where I say "a nice pedicure is my weakness". Innocent enough in my opinion. But many women that have read that have plain out asked me "do you have a foot fetish" or simply assume that I have one. No prob, but it's just funny. Who knew I was so transparent.
One girl I met on there had the same reaction to that line. The funny thing is the guy she dated before has a foot fetish too. She said he would bother her everyday for foot pics on her cell phone! I wonder if he was also into footjobs too? I guess i'll find out soon enough! She didn't seem too enthused about his foot fetish though...although she did seem to be interested in mine. Already said she'd get a weekly pedicure as long as she's seeing me.
What are some instances where you think you're being discreet but instead are exposed for what you are....a female foot lover?
I don't have a problem with any of that. I DO have a problem with women who want to show their feet, then get upset when people look at them. Some of you out there know what I mean.
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Take heart. Most women I know minimally liked or were intrigued by foot fetishism. Some loved it. I have only known one woman who really disliked it and told me I was "strange". She is long gone. Most have thought it was "cute", "sexy", "a turn-on", or "cool."
Take heart. It is a great fetish and many women enjoy it. I think those who don't are self-concious about their feet. That is all.
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i have foot adventures all the time, but i have never had any women ask me before i have mentioned my fetish to them....hell i'm trying to get caught that first time....lol
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quote:Originally posted by Footman9: Women are hip to the game. They know; or Kinda know, but still need solid confirmation or just find it amazing to think their feet can cause such a commotion.
Very true. Most woman are VERY perceptive. My wife had heard about guys who love feet but had never dated one. When I confessed my fetish to her she was surprised in a way but wanted to learn all she could about my likes and desires in the foot realm. One of the things of course that surprised her was just how much I love feet and footwear.
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