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I said it before I'll say it again, "Don't Settle" If she got ugly feet I doubt you will learn to love them just being honest! Imagine the roasting you would get by the feminazi's who post on Dan Savage's love column if you asked for his advice. LOL! I can see the comments now "Your going to leave a great girl because of some nasty foot perversion" LOL!!!!
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My wife does not have the prettiest feet either. However she is always willing to entertain my fetish. trust me, it doesn't even matter. when you have someone that will endulge your fetish, the rest doesnt matter. So enjoy!
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I lived that situation. I was for 5 years with a gf, she was beauty, nice and we had much in common. However, her feet were ugly, they were a turn off for me.
At first I wanted to think that breaking only for her ugly feet was a mad thing to do... but the truth is that our sex life started to suffer. I was not excited by her feet and looked at other feet with desire. I wished I could have a gf with nice feet to get aroused and kiss them while making love and etc...
Our sex life brought problems and our relation became bitter... I made love with no passion... I looked at other girls feet.... I watched foot fetish porno videos and masturbated to them... I was not satisfied.
So my friend... in the end, that silly thing can be a problem. It really can destroy the relation and bring you to a bitter end, where you'll feel guilty for wasting her time and yours. If you really are a foot man, then you should break with her if her feet don't attract you.
You don't need to say you are breaking because you don't like her feet. Just say you don't match.
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I dated a girl who's feet had no arch and webbed toes. I gave her a foot massage once and it turned me off. Luckily, I found other reasons to break up with her avoiding upsetting her.
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in the offline world.. here is what it sounds like.... you're dating a gal based only on her feet... nothing else.
in the fetish world.. it's a no brainer.. dump her. you're not happy.
here are the options i see.
1-you're breat with her minus her feet. you can grow together and enjoy each other.. minus her feet
2-leave and find a gal who has amazing feet, but won't let you touch them because that grosses her out and she wants to dump you because she thinks you're a freak
3-you get lucky and find someone you're really cool with, very happy with, and has great feet.
my wife, when we were dating, made an effort to accomodate me. though her peds aren't the best i've ever wanted, they do have the hose look i enjoy. however, now married, she is much less likely to get into foot activity like when we were dating. thank goodness we have a lot of other things in common:)
sure it gets a bit annoying at times, but only at times. our love life is amazing otherwise. and the few times she does bring her feet into the equation, it adds to the pleasure that is.
so, my friend. if you decide to leave her (which seems to be the vibe here).. don't tell her it's her feet. she can't do a thing about that. and she'll be even more hurt and crushed. especially because on all the metrix gals use, you're getting along fine.
better luck next time. only if there was a way to see the feet before you get serious... hum.......