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She sounds like a jerk. But why bother with revenge? All that would do would be to make you look like you're embarrassed about liking feet. And if someone says something or asks just say, "Yeah I do". Because big friggin deal, you like feet, so what? Not like she discovered you had the cure for cancer but were hiding it, then she may have had a cause to tell others.
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Yeah, I agree that what she did was totally uncalled for, and inappropriate, considering the circumstances, so I don't blame you for feeling anger and disappointment.
One of the things I've learned about being in this business though, is that it's futile to affect they way others see you, and how they feel about you, so just fuck them all and move on.
Sometimes, when people are confronted with that which they don't understand, their reaction will based on fear and ignorance, but since you're not a criminal and are not engaged in anything harmful to anyone, that's their problem, not yours.
I have spoken.
Adam
"I'm the one who's going to have to die when it's my turn to die, so let me live my life, the way I want to". - Jimi Hendrix "If 6 was 9"
[ August 15, 2012, 06:38 PM: Message edited by: Fair Adam ]
Don't fret too much about it. She probably wasn't much of a friend in the first place if she did this.
My advice to you... Own it. Just own it. If someone asks you about it, just say "Yeah, I dig chicks with pretty feet" with confidence. No one will give a shit after that.
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Gossip about someone's internet cookies from x years ago? At a funeral?
If this hadn't happened to you, you could more easily see it--and her--for what it--and she--is.
People like her are cancerous and live for this kind of stuff. It's absolutely all she has going for her in her pathetic life. Everybody at the service knows that.
Don't confront her, don't contact an attorney, don't try to shoot her feet, just divest yourself of her and her toxicity. Keep her and people like her at a distance.
Life is too damn short to give people like this any time. Go have a beer.
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