I just wanted to ask your opinion on the link between foot fetish and submissiveness (when it comes to sexual activity, not a personality type).
I'm the dominant one in my relationship, but i get turned on the most by my being submissive to my girlfriend - worshipping her feet and ass. I even deep down wished she forced me to give another guy a blowjob or lick her asshole clean after she takes a dump, though I think this would freak her out if I told her.
I notice a lot of foot fetish acts are also submissive. like Foot worship, having feet rubbed in face, trampling and crushing. Getting kicked in the balls and so on...
Do you think most foot fetish people are submissives deep down?
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It can be complicated. For me, it's all amount feet. I agree there are a lot of submissive aspects to foot worship, and I get turned on by that. But I enjoy feet with out really any submissive activity. It's really feet I love, ultimately.
quote:Originally posted by nerdbuster: I even deep down wished she forced me to give another guy a blowjob
inb4 the homophobe patrol
But I think there is some link between some aspects of foot fetishism and submissiveness. I wouldn't say that foot fetishism is inherently submissive, though.
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I love feet, but I do enjoy the submissive side of the fetish. I'm used to being the dominant and protecting person. I've had to protect my mother and siblings for many years.
I really enjoy having someone else take control. Especially with how easily I can be controlled, and by something so small.
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I notice a lot of responses are that it is 'just' the feet that is liked, and I'm sure for many it is just the attributes of feet (size, smell, skin tone...) that turn them on.
However, feet are the lowest part of the body. We walk on them all day, get em dirty and sweaty and what not.
Also, culturally and historically, feet are considered low. Bowing at one's feet for instance.
So, to be so in love with this part of a woman's body, to revel in the fact that she can make you so uncontrollably horny with just her feet, i can't help but feel that it is the sense of being lower than the woman's lowest part that creates the allure - whether conscious or not.
I think the same thing goes with guys that are into ass worship too.
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I do like to take the lead as feet are my thing but the thought of forced foot worship and smelling etc is one that makes me uncontrollably horny but I think it's more the feet than the submissive side
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Even the ones who claim to be on top of their game and "get it up" each time the occasion arises are submissive due to an event earlier in life where a woman put them in their place and they have to act out as a keyboard alpha-male to cover their misgivings and fears.
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I am a Dominant male in so far as I have a sub/slave girl in my life. I love her feet and I take them in what way I like when I like... Some people may claim liking feet is submissive and not Dominant but to me what would be not Dominant would be ignore my urges just because other people might beleave they dont fit in with there image or idea of how something should be.
If you enjoy feet and bowing down to them and it brings you pleasure good if a woman will do that with you brilliant.
Equally though if you enjoy pinning a woman down and taking her feet and she likes this good do it enjoy it
You only live once do what makes you and those you care about happy and ignore anyone who tells you it is wrong or not right.
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Well I am not submissive at all. I love smelly, stinky female soles but most of the times I take the lead. There is no connection between loving feet and being submissive, at least with me. Maybe it is for most foot lovers out there but not for me.
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It's interesting because I don't need to be submissive to enjoy my foot fetish, but my girlfriend can make me totally submissive with her feet. I don't know if it's because my foot fetish is so strong but if my girlfriend were to say something like "Before you can touch my feet, you must strip naked and get on your knees in front of me" I'd be thinking 'yes, yes of course anything just to get those feet in my face!' It's like I need her feet so much that I'd lower myself in any submissive way she likes just to get at her feet. It's like I can't help myself, my fetish controls me lol Posts: 492 | Registered: Oct 2011
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I am definitely not submissive with my foot fetish, Actually, I think I am the aggressor in that regard in a sexual encounter. I never ask permission to grab and rub lovely feet and toes…i never ask permission to kiss soft soles… I never ask permission to rub my cock on her soft undersides of her feet…..well, that's my take on it .
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