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Lol, this is so true. Hey guys and gals, so the last couple days i've stopped "you know what" haha because i simply wanted to see how much more energy i would have, lemme tell ya, i have ALOT more energy.
This all started with a conversation with a co-worker. We where talking about lifting weights, and somehow the "don't have sex or jerk off before you lift weights" came up. I've researched this, and you are more on edge when you do not ejaculate, trhough sex or just masturbation. This creates alot of awareness for the male, thus giving us more "energy".
For me, after i either have sex, or masturbate, i get really relaxed, and cannot think of doing much especially things where i have to be "pumped up". I sell for a living, so energy must be very strong. If i "do it" before i go to work, i "sell less" no joke. So far i've gone several days without you know what, and i've felt so pumped and energized even without drinking coffee-which i'm addicted to btw.
Lol, give it a try fella's..... I must say though, today a customer was wearing those ballet slipper shoes, and kept on dis-lodging her feet and i almost lost it, but i pressed on lol....it was REALLY hard to NOT give in to my thoughts and run to the bathroom to blow a load...haha.
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mind over matter buddy.. no science behind that.
in fact, i've got more energy and 'sell' better and am more pumped and easier to get along with.. and connect with folks a lot better if i had some serious hot love making the night before. i'm more focused.. more pumped.
and many folks who rely heavily on being pumped and connecting with their audiences say they do a much much better job after having had sex than not.
even many athletes i've talked to says that relaxed state helps keep them in their game.
what is scientific, being in the zone involves a certain level of relaxed mental state with hyper focused. any athelete who is tense though hyper focused perform less than those who are both relaxed and hyper focused.
because of personal and religious convictions, i've not had sex prior to marriage. having gotten married in my 30's.. i can really tell ya.... you're more relaxed, but a whole lot more clear and focused if you made love the night before a major 'event'.
as a professional speaker (the only time i'll mention one of the things I do for a living)..... my best performances, my best selling ability, my overall best connection with the audience is after i've made love to my wife the night before.
i've never tried it the same day.. don't want to be too relaxed now. but the night before. oh heck yeah! and many professional speakers I associate with said their career making best moments were after they had sex.
so... the only folks i've heard vouch for the opposite, sadly enough, were body builders who had poor records with gals.
just what i've observed.
i'd love to read whatever data you got to support your point of view.. and i guess i must look up the stuff i read to support my point if i'm going to ask.
Bob Proctor wrote in one of his books that being in a state of relaxation creates the best creative results. one of his books on sales. dont' recall which one. he and a few other authors speak on the same thing at a forum that he held.
just one example of 'research'.
ok.. nuff chattin'
RPM
p.s. when i go any stretch without it, i get more irritable (if that counts for more energy) and feel like i'm burning more adrenaline. <plus, i'm one of maybe only two guys here who have said they don't whack off. not my cup of tea.. don't do it. so i don't know how one reacts to not whacking off>
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Well it is different for you then, alot of people are the complete opposite. Just do a google search on it, most people are too "mellow" after the said event (ejaculation by means of sex or masturbation).
For me, even when i was in a relationship, i would NEVER have sex before hitting the gym or doing other physical activities.
Hell even if i jerk off once, 30 minutes later i can't bench what i could do the day before.
PS i loved the reply though, must've took you a while to put that all together.
1 day no jackoff = irritable 2 day no jackoff = more irritable 3 day no jackoff = wish everybody would die 4 day no jackoff = haven't done it since god knows when.
boxers, in particular, are encouraged to not have sex for up to six weeks before a fight. can you imagine no sex for six weeks and then getting your ass kicked? Posts: 238 | Registered: Mar 2007
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quote:Originally posted by Cain: That's why Mike Tyson had all the pent up aggression cause Don King never let him whack it or have sex.
haha i think there was a little more to it than that
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wanna amp up the aggression factor by witholding sex... or no whacking off.. i'll give you that!!! more testosterone floating around.. sure.. you'll be a lot more aggressive!! a lot!
after sex, after whacking off, the level of testosterone drops.. so you're more mellow.. that i can give you.
but being more mellow and less productive.. debatable.. (assuming sleep after the event)
like.. fjb mentioned.. it's the sleep factor. i don't see myself tackling a huge job right after making love to my wife. i just want to sleep right after that.. and i'd not dare try exerting myself. i have no desire to figure out how that works.
closest to that i've ever come was having to complete a project.. made love very early in the day, and had time to work on the project. took a while to get focused.. but once focused.. got the job done.
a note about google search.. it will find anything that fits the search key words. so.. if you're searching for evidence that ejaculations make you weak. you'll find it. same if you search the reverse. but one search won't feed you much info the other way around.
RPM
p.s. Gibarian, i'm not putting your conclusion down at all. in fact, because it's such a well accepted view... i'm sure not surprised that the results will continue support that. just like for me, i feel that great love making enhances my performance next day, i'll keep getting the same results!
I watched a movie a while back called "40 Days & 40 Nights" where this dude decided to go 40days without any sexual satisfaction....
I tried it, and lasted 7 days... Couldn't handle it.... the sex after was one of the best I've ever had ....
Has anyone been longer?
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i highly doubt i'vre gone 7 days.... 3 is torture. i know i've gone 5 before.. boy was i irritable!!!!!
a friend of mines gone 6 months.. not of his choosing... and boy, was he a mess!!! a total raving lunatic of a mess!!! he ended up cheating on his wife after month 6
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You wanna talk about getting energy and being cranky...I just started a cycle of DBOL and you want to talk about energy...let alone aggression! I could eat nails and shit bullets I'm that fucking angry at the most random shit...good news though...my balls aren't shrinking I have gained like 15 lbs since starting it about a month ago and I have had sex about 6 times since I started the cycle and its been the same ol but I have been horny as hell though. Like one time last week the g/f wanted to fuck but I said darling...if we had sex right now I'd break your pelvis and rearrange your organs I'd go that hard So I fucked her feet instead
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