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Girlfriend told me tonight that she wants me to do things to her feet other than biting her heels, nibbling on her toes, tying her feet and tickling them. She said she will be totally compliant submissive as long as I am totally dominant. Suggestions as to what I should do with her feet are greatly appreciated. I don't know what to think of this, but she is very open minded. Suggestions greatly appreciated.
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Is she into total bondage? How about role-playing? Your girlfriend has just about given you carte blanche. Let your imagination run wild (provided it's safe and sane, of course).
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quote:Originally posted by Salvy_Mic: Is she into total bondage? How about role-playing? Your girlfriend has just about given you carte blanche. Let your imagination run wild (provided it's safe and sane, of course).
Yes she is totally into bondage. However, its a new aspect to me. I will though however let my imagination run wild as she is VERY open minded.
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Try looking up Bastinado on Google. Very sexy scenes of really pretty feet bound in various ways and punished. I'm also into that. You're a lucky guy. LOVE pretty feet bound and punished.
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Man, I go crazy over submissive women with cute little feet that are into being dominated. LOVE fucking a girl missionary with he toes pointed. Pointed toes very submissive to me. mmmmmmmmmmm
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quote:Originally posted by spartanguy: Try looking up Bastinado on Google. Very sexy scenes of really pretty feet bound in various ways and punished. I'm also into that. You're a lucky guy. LOVE pretty feet bound and punished.
Yeah, tried bastinado. I spanked her soles with the wooden kitchen spoon but to no avail. I think I know what she might have in mind...
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Try tying her ankles together. You might want to tie it well enough so that it leaves some marks on her ankles by the time you remove them. I really find that hot. Anyway, with a lighted candle, you then pour the hot wax on her toes so that it drips down her soles.
It can be a form of teasing torture.
It has to appear as if you're doing all of this at the spur of the moment. Catch her by surprise and just do it.
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quote:Originally posted by Crazy_Diamond: Girlfriend told me tonight that she wants me to do things to her feet other than biting her heels, nibbling on her toes, tying her feet and tickling them. She said she will be totally compliant submissive as long as I am totally dominant. Suggestions as to what I should do with her feet are greatly appreciated. I don't know what to think of this, but she is very open minded. Suggestions greatly appreciated.
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Speaking as a bondage aficionado, this is a pretty open ended question with a lot of different directions that it can go.
Clearly, you are going to tie her up, there is a wide variety of ways to do this - you can PM me to help with this, once you've decided what you want to do. Remember, you are the dominant one here so asking her what she would like to do is counter-productive (if she is going to be completely submissive, then you have to make all the decisions, you just have to make sure they are a pleasant surprise in a BDSM sort of way).
You need to find her boundaries and limits. You don't want to go straight to Bastinado from the get-go. You'll have to find some mats (like doormats) that are very bristly and uncomfortable on which to stand - you'll have to look for them, but there are also mats with raised pyramids on them (for scraping off hard mud), these can be a wonderful torment. Then on to candle wax (you can start with this but there is a technique to it). After that, you can move on to soft leather whips, crops, "stingier" bats, and finally canes.
You also have to decide whether you with to go with rope or leather restraints and how strict the bondage is going to be. Start easy and work your way up. As a novice, using rope can create a number of problems without some practice - you really need to know your knots and which ones you can apply where on a body.
It occurs to me to mention that you definitely want to procure an Hitachi wand...we like to reward our subs for the suffering that pleases us so much.
There are a number of great and reliable sites where you can purchase the items you will need; the one that comes to mind first is the Subshop - I believe the address is subshop.com. I'll get some other addys if you need.
Just some things you may wish to consider before embarking on this adventure.