I have a friend, Maria, who works in one of the retail places near my apartment. We are "Friends", but haven't yet gone out on a date. I'm not sure if we will, because she has some trust issues, but that isn't the point of my post.
I'm not sure how the subject came up, but I was talking to her the other day. We know most everything about each other.. personally. Yet, I somewhat awkwardly said.,. "I have a.. fetish" She guessed.. "Feet" I sheepishly nodded my head. She started to laugh. I expected her to say something like "You're crazy".. or "Now that I know this we can never go out". Instead.. she was surprisingly supportive. She said something like "Feet is no big deal. If we do get involved, I'd let you kiss my feet.. but.. ah.. I have really ugly feet". (I haven't seen her feet yet, because she wears closed toe shoes) I said something like "Let me be the judge of that. I'm sure your feet aren't ugly, because the rest of you is very pretty".
I'm not sure what's going to happen with this. If we don't end up serious, I don't think it will be because of "Feet".
My point of this post is... If you want to get serious with someone, but haven't yet.. have any forum members confessed their fetish to a "Friend", who you haven't at all been physical yet, not knowing how that friend would react?
Anyhow, just wanted to post this. I will be interested to see the replies. Thanks.
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A majority of girls say they have ugly feet, that's just a normal thing. But if she is cool, which it sounds like she is. Then it's all good, Keep us posted please.
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quote:Originally posted by Peter, Peter: A majority of girls say they have ugly feet, that's just a normal thing. But if she is cool, which it sounds like she is. Then it's all good, Keep us posted please.
Yeah I don't get it...when they actually have nice feet and won't permit you to inspect them a little closer...plenty that will though!
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With her trust issues, and the fact that we haven't gone out on an official "date" yet, even though we talk for hours every week, I don't think I could bring myself to ask to massage or play with her feet, unless either she offered me to.. or.. we were bf/gf, and we were intimate in other ways. If the latter happened, which I hope it does, I would remind her about my foot fetish, ask to give her a foot massage, and take it from there.
I haven't seen her since I made this thread, and she doesn't work over the weekends. Hopefully on Monday, I can see her, and continue to move this in the right direction.
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Anyway, yes....I don't mind talking about my fetish with anyone. It's really not that big of a deal. Some people will say eww gross...but that doesn't bother me. It's fun and liberating though to talk about your foot fetish without worrying about the judgement of others.
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I did ask her out, many times. She says that she likes me as a friend, but doesn't want to get serious with anyone. I don't think its me. She just has issues.
All I can do is talk to her, wait and see. I don't want to make a pest out of myself, where she gets turned off totally and doesn't want to talk to me.
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All of my friends know of my fetish. I don't hide it. I try to find a way to work it into a conversation. I usually wait until I know the person for a few weeks so it's not as much of a shock. If the opportunity is there, I'll open up about it sooner.
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It's never wise to confess your fetish to a woman unless you've actually seen her feet and know that you want them. Suppose you confess to her and tell her what you want and what you want her to do and she's cool with it and when she takes off her shoes they are TOTALLY not your type...what next?
quote:Originally posted by jamaicanfeet: It's never wise to confess your fetish to a woman unless you've actually seen her feet and know that you want them. Suppose you confess to her and tell her what you want and what you want her to do and she's cool with it and when she takes off her shoes they are TOTALLY not your type...what next?
Up until your post, I didn't consider the devil's advocate viewpoint. Its good to expand your horizons beyond types. There would have to be other traits about her feet to make up for whats missing. Women always say a guy, even you, is not her type. Attraction has nothing to do with types. If you can get her attracted to you, the type thing gets blown to bits.
Mitch, sounds like your friend is trying you...giving you a s--t test. She said if you two got involved, she'd let you kiss her feet. Yet after you've asked her out, she said she wants to only remain friends. Screw bf-gf, just hang out and show her a fun time. Think out of the box when you come up with ideas for places to go and things to do. And don't ask to massage or kiss her feet, just do it. You would wait until she offered. That is like waiting for her to offer you to kiss her. Some things you just do. When you wait too long, or ask, girls see you as less than a man, and that is not attractive to them.
I've either admitted my like for feet to a "friend" beforehand, or shown her my like.
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jedi, that's what I plan to do. I see her for hours on end every week. I'm going to continue to hang out with her, and just go with the flow.
I was shocked.. to be honest..that she didn't freak out when I told her I have a foot fetish. At least I know that's not a impediment.
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