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Has anyone come across or had any luck using dating/hookup apps designed for the fetish community? I've had luck on tinder before, but I'm looking for something for like minded people.
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Fetlife sucks for me. I've tried two or three different times to participate, contact girls, join groups. Never got past messaging with a few ladies. OKCupid, now that's a different story. I met and smelled 4 girls feet from there. AND I've always got something cooking with a bunch of other chics (messaging, possible meet ups, exchange numbers and emails).
So, yeah, for me OKCupid (although it's not specifically designed for fetishes) has been awesome. And it's free!
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quote:Originally posted by ucflyeah: Fetlife sucks for me. I've tried two or three different times to participate, contact girls, join groups. Never got past messaging with a few ladies. OKCupid, now that's a different story. I met and smelled 4 girls feet from there. AND I've always got something cooking with a bunch of other chics (messaging, possible meet ups, exchange numbers and emails).
So, yeah, for me OKCupid (although it's not specifically designed for fetishes) has been awesome. And it's free!
How do you present your personal profile there on OKCupid, is yours blatantly "looking for feet" only or a genuine profile with hints you like feet? I agree with you about FetLife, total waste of time and not user friendly.
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Yeah, I hang around FetLife but often feel like leaving...pretty much a waste of time. Good thing about it is it's very anonymous. I worry, int the wake of the Ashley Maddison hack, about registering anywhere. What kind of info do you need to give to OKCupid to register?
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I've had some luck on okcupid. I just can't really post the foot fetish thing on there. I can't tell you how many times I've seen coworkers, friends and friends of friends on there. It would make for an awkward conversation if those people all saw my interests.
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quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.
Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.
You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.
You'll agree that asking a girl in public to photograph her feet and sniffing/smelling the hell out of them like a starving dog are two different things right? Not diminishing your work. It's fabulous. It's just that I think we're talking about diving nose first into a pair of feet here. And that's a completely different story. Girls are joined to their phones, always. And they're constantly on Tinder, OKCupid, etc... these are valuable and productive dating sites for a lot of guys. If you present your profile with honesty and say you wanna smell and massage their feet, you're going to get some hits. You just have to carpet bomb the place. Much easier than going out and spending money only to get "you are so weird, I'm not interested".
Just my opinion. I've got 3 on OKCupid right now who want to meet up but I'm busy all weekend and can't. Hopefully they'll hang on. They DO lost interest very fast.
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You're doing a good job UCfly, let us know if anything comes about and share pics if you can snap some. You are correct as well, the approach to getting women to model feet is VERY different than doing what you are doing and needs much more finesse and skill. Good Luck!
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I've had little luck with OkStupid. I decided to reactivate my profile a while back. Nothing yet. If there's a better site that's not a ripoff I'd like to know.
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quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.
Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.
You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.
You'll agree that asking a girl in public to photograph her feet and sniffing/smelling the hell out of them like a starving dog are two different things right? Not diminishing your work. It's fabulous. It's just that I think we're talking about diving nose first into a pair of feet here. And that's a completely different story. Girls are joined to their phones, always. And they're constantly on Tinder, OKCupid, etc... these are valuable and productive dating sites for a lot of guys. If you present your profile with honesty and say you wanna smell and massage their feet, you're going to get some hits. You just have to carpet bomb the place. Much easier than going out and spending money only to get "you are so weird, I'm not interested".
Just my opinion. I've got 3 on OKCupid right now who want to meet up but I'm busy all weekend and can't. Hopefully they'll hang on. They DO lost interest very fast.
GoodGuyNeighbor's post is truth. I've had better success with face to fact meets and/or approaching women in public vs the online thing because a lot of women can't get a feel for nobody behind a screen. I have had success with fetlife as well due to what I do however I will say that for most of those women on there you have to indulge in their interest as well it cant be one sided or else most of them won't even bother talking to you. Now at the same time I will admit that its better to meet in person vs fetlife as well because a lot of women can be uptight with who they add/talk too but that can be due to a lot of men coming at them crazy. now ucflyeah I will admit too that a lot of men dont want to waste time/money just to get I am not really interested thanks anyway response. Now I will admit that if your honest like you say on your profile, very likely you will get hits because unless she hates her feet/don't like anyone touching them, what women wouldnt want a footrub.
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.
Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.
You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.
You'll agree that asking a girl in public to photograph her feet and sniffing/smelling the hell out of them like a starving dog are two different things right? Not diminishing your work. It's fabulous. It's just that I think we're talking about diving nose first into a pair of feet here. And that's a completely different story.
the success has gone to his head, since i'm sure to him it's all one in the same.
for me, personally, i have better success on okcupid then i do face to face. but, then again, i've not met any ladies off of okcupid but i've actually been able to have conversations with women on there which is better then what happens face to face where women usually tend to cross the street instead of me walking past them.
i have a tinder profile that was useless after a week because i met no one off of it. it's only really still useful to see what coworker or person who interacts with my job shows up on there. i'm honest about what i'm looking for on tinder only because i know that as soon as my pic shows up on a girls round of guys i'm an automatic swipe left so they won't even see it.
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quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: Many of these dating sites are almost exclusively male, with fake women. Real women are more likely to meet people in person.
Exactly, if I wanted to talk with a male posing as a woman, I'd call one of those old school 900 numbers LOL!
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: Girls don't necessarily need to be predisposed to anything in order for them to enjoy you introducing them to something new and exciting.
You'd have way higher odds getting out and going to some clubs, parties, and events and such.
Once again, your golden advice is spot on! This recommendation is also great for guys who want to brush up on their social skills. The rewards though, are phenomenal, as we've seen through countless examples from real life foot troopers over the years. Nothing beats a pair of women's feet after a satisfying day of earning them out in the field.
In the quest for getting feet, the virtual world has no comparison to the trenches of real life. Get out there fellas and share your success stories! Men like GGN and others have perfected the proof of concept, so it's just a matter of being inspired enough to make it happen in your own world!!
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For me, it's never been so easy in person. It seems like SOOOO much work from hello...to...wow your feet tasted and smelled incredible & I came really hard.
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quote:Originally posted by ucflyeah: For me, it's never been so easy in person. It seems like SOOOO much work from hello...to...wow your feet tasted and smelled incredible & I came really hard.
For most guys I hear the same thing, but I think there's someone up there peddling a book on how it can work every time for you