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I have thought about this for a long time, and I come to the conclusion that my life would be different if I didn't have a foot fetish. Because I have a foot fetish it makes me feel 'different' from most folk, and subsequently, instead of embracing my fetish, I find myself distancing myself from people. I think it's because when I'm out with friends I'm always looking at my female friends' feet and thinking 'what if I took her out and she eventually finds out I have a foot thing', she'll think i'm weird', and bang goes another relationship for example. That's one reason why I'm single and have been for a long time due to this. I just can't form a bond due to my fetish, and in a lot of ways I hate myself for having it.
Don't get me wrong. I have nothing against you guys on here for having this fetish, and i'm glad you can be so open about it, but for me I think it's a curse that in some ways is ruining my life. Sorry to be so dramatic, but that's how I feel. Does anyone else ever feel like this?
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I think once you open yourself up to a girl, and she lets you indulge, you'll be a lot more comfortable with yourself.
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quote:Originally posted by Talos: I think once you open yourself up to a girl, and she lets you indulge, you'll be a lot more comfortable with yourself.
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by sportyruss: [QB] ?...I find myself distancing myself from people. ?......That's one reason why I'm single and have been for a long time due to this. I just can't form a bond due to my fetish...
Personally, I don't tell everyone I meet that I have a foot fetish, I also worry about negative reactions. But I feel that I am better for having my fetish, not worse. I love feet so much! I feel I know something that others don't, and they are the ones missing out. I am also confident that if I ever need a new girl, I can find plenty of girls that will appreciate my attention to their feet, and will eventually embrace my fetish. But I wouldn't jump right into their feet, I'd work up to it. (unless I met them at Wu's or some other fetish site.)
Personally, I don't tell everyone I meet that I have a foot fetish, I also worry about negative reactions.
I don't tell everyone either, unless it is brought up. My friends usually drop the bomb and by them saying something to a girl about me having a foot fetish they're cool with it because everyone that knows me is cool with it. I've never had any sort of negative reactions (excluding the married chick I was going after). My friends have called me at work more than once to tell me that some chick, who has never even met me, wants a foot rub.
One of my friends needed a ride to his girlfriends house and he offered me some gas money. I didn't want to take his money and was gonna bring him anyway, but then he offered to let me rub his girls feet. I laughed and took his offer. He called her and asked her if it was ok and she told him that I better giver her a damn good massage, lol. She was a little hesitant at first because she felt her feet were dirty, but after I told her I didn't mind she quickly propped her feet in my lap. She loved how it felt and told me not to stop even while her and my friend were making out, lol. After a bit I left the room so they could do their thing. Later she made me a sandwich!
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quote:Originally posted by Talos: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Jiao:
She loved how it felt and told me not to stop even while her and my friend were making out, lol. After a bit I left the room so they could do their thing. Later she made me a sandwich!
You were the "fluffer!"
Its cool that your friends all are on the lookout for you.
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@Talos Great story! I know my wife's best friend, who has the cutest small feet, would love me to massage her feet, she has said so before, but my wife would not let me.
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The way I see it is this, of the ones you tell you have a fetish don't stay,"then they ain't in the picture, they ain't in the frame" basically there not worth it n move along. What I've learned about having a foot fetish is that ppl are shallow in this world and if they neglect you for your fetish then there just absent minded ppl and are not worth the time.
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Never felt bad or ashamed about it. It's my thing, if someone feels uncomfortable because I like women's feet then that's on them, not me.
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Nope, I'm glad its something instilled in me(since the age of 6, no lie)that can easily turn me on about a woman!
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