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Now i'm just curious but would u consider worshipping another womens feet other than your girls feet cheating..? i mean it's not sex but let's just say that your in a good relationship with your girl and she pleases u in everyway; like footjobs and lets u have your way with her feet in anyway u want..but 4 some reason u still want more feet..and then u call your homegurls 2 have fun with their feet, would u think that's cheating..?? i mean were talking about feet, not vaginas.. lol voice ur thoughts.. =)
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And does this super wonderful girlfriend *know* that her partner is worshipping/playing with other women's feet?
If she does and doesn't think anything of it, then it's not *cheating* -- cheating implies lying and sneaking around in my view.
If she has no clue and this is something done in secret, then it's walking the fine line of being "a cheater" right there. If you think it has to be a secret, then perhaps it's not really that good of an idea. Why risk hurting the super awesome girlfriend?
This is *totally* the kind of thing that should be discussed between two people in a relationship.
And my slightly off-topic question is: Is anyone else watching SwingTown on TV? Talk about having an open relationship, hehe.
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quote:Originally posted by AmberLily: And does this super wonderful girlfriend *know* that her partner is worshipping/playing with other women's feet?
If she does and doesn't think anything of it, then it's not *cheating* -- cheating implies lying and sneaking around in my view.
If she has no clue and this is something done in secret, then it's walking the fine line of being "a cheater" right there. If you think it has to be a secret, then perhaps it's not really that good of an idea. Why risk hurting the super awesome girlfriend?
This is *totally* the kind of thing that should be discussed between two people in a relationship.
And my slightly off-topic question is: Is anyone else watching SwingTown on TV? Talk about having an open relationship, hehe. ;)
I like ur answer, the topic ran through my mind the other day after a co-worker was discussing the levels of cheating..and i said, "would worshipping other womens feet be cheating?'' lol
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I would say it is cheating. If it's something she knows about and doesn't seem to care, then don't be surprised when you find out she's 'only' blowing your neighbour down the hall.
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I'd say it's cheating to a foot lover or anyone who thought they would get sexual pleasure from it, example if a group of friends are playing truth or dare, nobody there likes feet at all and one boy is dared to lick a girls foot from heel to toe and he does it that isn't cheating.
However, for a foot fetish this is basic foreplay to him which puts it in the same league as going down on someone or getting a blow job.
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i was in a simiar situation and trust me its cheating. what seems harmless to a guy is not to a woman. it almost cost me a 7 year relationship. try to think of it from your gf point of view. you are touching another woman in a sexual way that is not her. trust me your gf will not think its harmless when she finds out.
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Bottom line....if the action, or activity you are about to par take in makes you ask this question to yourself, and you cannot openly, honestly tell your spouse, girlfriend, or partner about it, then it is cheating.
If it helps, reverse it...would you consider it cheating if your spouse, girlfriend, or partner allowed another man (male friend, stranger, co-worker) to worship, and have his way with her feet as you would, and did not tell you about it....would you consider it cheating?
quote:Originally posted by *@LeX-RaGe*: Now i'm just curious but would u consider worshipping another womens feet other than your girls feet cheating..? i mean it's not sex but let's just say that your in a good relationship with your girl and she pleases u in everyway; like footjobs and lets u have your way with her feet in anyway u want..but 4 some reason u still want more feet..and then u call your homegurls 2 have fun with their feet, would u think that's cheating..?? i mean were talking about feet, not vaginas.. lol voice ur thoughts.. =)
Share the rest of the story, can you get some feet of another girls?
This sounds kinky and sneaky...share the rest if there is more to this story lol
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my wife and i consider anything that you do with another person that you dont want your partner to know about cheating. so yeah, if i was to go out and massage a womans feet and make sure my wife didnt find out, i would be cheating.
as for open realtionships and swingtowns.. we watch it and laugh cause it reminds us a little how we got into the swinging scene. it wasnt nearly as easy as they portray it and alot of starts and stops. and yeah, when we are swinging, if i was ever interested, i could do whatever with another woman's feet.
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In this case I am going to go with the majority here and say - if you must HIDE your actions then yes it is cheating.
However ... if you do tell her and she is ok with it then that is all the permission you need. Definately discuss this with her!!
ps - who's girl-friends are these .. yours or hers If they are her "girls" - they should respect her "invisible" lines and should know where NOT to go with you.
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