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Well just like everyone else here i have a huge foot fetish. I've been dating my gf for a month now and she has some of the most beautiful feet I've ever come in contact with. They are a sexy size 5 with the most perfect toes I've seen. The bad news is she hates feet in general which has kept me from telling her about my fetish. This is like torture for me and I really don't know what to do. Any advice?
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Belly up to the bar-if they are size five with the most perfect toes you've seen you should teach her to like them-is she likes you and you treat her feet right you'll be just fine
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Show me a quick sole pic, with her toes spread on the other side, and Ill give you all the advice you need!!
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Only a month? How long will you go on and not tell her until it becomes to much and then you spring it on her and she's disgusted becuase it comes out in a way that turn off anyone instead of a converstion as you continue to learn new things about each other. How did you know that she hates feet in the first place?
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I appreciate all the advice. I found out she hated feet when her sister touched her with her feet. BTW her sister has pretty nice feet as well so I guess that runs in the family. She threw a huge fit and told me that she doesn't like feet. There has also been other times where she brings up her disgust about feet.
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Odds are you're not going to change her mind. Have only met one lady that hated feet that I know of. We didn't get along otherwise so it never became an issue.
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Many women hate feet because they are insecure about their own feet, so many think think theirs look horrible no matter how sexy they are. Best not to mention anything about your FF yet just take it slow, offer a foot massage tell her to relax she might just like it. Good luck!
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Maybe she caught you looking/drooling over her feet and has a pretty good idea that you have a thing for feet...or at least her feet. So maybe she is looking for a compliment.
The same way when a woman says...my ass looks fat, she wants a compliment/confirmation that it is anything but fat.
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Look, you're going to have to do something sometime or else resign yourself to being unfulfilled in this area. It's not going to magically resolve itself. She's not going to independently take the lead on this and suddenly offer them up to you.
Fortunately, you don't really have to "raise the issue" with her. Just pursue your interests calmly and matter-of-factly. Give her a foot massage while you're watching TV, or briefly suck her toes (don't fixate on them) while you're having sex, or buy her a pair of strappy heels for your next night on the town, or treat her to a massage and pedicure at a local spa or salon.
You don't have to make any grand declarations or sheepish admissions. The former is just odd, the latter makes you seem like you're asking for permission.
As the old Nike ads said, "Just do it." My bet is, as long as you don't make it a major issue, you'll be fine. In other words, don't obsess over her feet ... just incorporate them casually into your relationship.
From your posts, it appears she has more of an issue with other people's feet than her own. I suspect if you leave her with the impression that you're interested in her, and not just her feet, you'll have some success.
If she asks, of course, you'll have to be honest. Tell her that, yes, you do think pretty feet are a turn-on, and hers are no exception. Under no circumstances should you tell her you have a "foot fetish" -- that term has a huge negative connotation. Instead, simply tell her you appreciate them and that this fact is just one of many aspects that make you who you are -- that you also like cooking, smooth jazz and walks on the beach (or whatever). If pushed, you can even say it's no different than guys who really like breasts or butts ... although I wouldn't go down that conversational path unless you really need to.
Of course, if she flatly says no, you'll have to make a difficult choice: stay or go. From my perspective, life's too short not to be happy, and sex is a very important part of life, and I know how I'd choose.
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