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Have any of you ever received negative reactions from girlfriends when you confessed your foot fetish to them? "You're a weido!," for example. My girlfriend has been very accepting of my foot fetish, I'm happy to say.
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One girl told me she didn't like her feet before we even began dating. I still tried and only had luck when she was drunk for the most part. When she was drunk, she'd tell me she actually loves my foot rubs. When sober, later, she'd deny ever saying it. We didn't last.
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I've had some women that got freaked out and it ruined the relationship.
I think some women are really really uncomfortable and have this self-hatred towards their feet for whatever reason.
One woman told me I reminded her of this one creep who followed her around a grocery store, aisle by aisle and then walked up to her and said she had beautiful feet. She spoke about that as if he was sicker then a rapist.
Needless to say, she kept a big distance from me after that.
Pity...she did have wonderful feet and always wore flip flops
...but to leave this post on a happier note...I have had a few girlfriends that dug it...and did whatever I wanted to...sniff 'em, self-worship, whatever I wanted, they were more then turned on by my foot attention.
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oh yes indeed, quite often they are weirded out.
heck the last girl i was with about 3 days ago was looking at me strange and asking how long it was gonna take for me to cum. and in the middle of it she looked at me and said: "you have a foot fetish, huh?"
at the end when i made myself cum, she kept asking if i cummed cuz she wanted to be done and over with. i didn't answer at first, but she kept looking at my cock and accused me of cumming cuz she wanted to be done with my foot fetish... saying like: "yeah, you cummed"
heck, one time with a regular girlfriend of mine from like 2 years ago, she would use a synonym to describe my foot fetish by saying i was "complicated" LOL
she would say things to me like i need a "foot to get hard" and she would even talk to her friends on the phone and talk about me in 3rd person just using phrases like that to describe to her friends what she has to put up with.
many times she would talk like that while i was right there watching too. she basically thought i was a weirdo and she wasn't fond of it cuz she wanted to have normal sex with me.
and boy let me tellya, i would make her cum so much when we had normal sex so you can see why she put up with me so much despite my "complications" as she put it.
nonetheless we eventually broke up cuz this girl had way too much drama. plus i guess in the end we were incompatible.
quote:Originally posted by oneagain: One woman told me I reminded her of this one creep who followed her around a grocery store, aisle by aisle and then walked up to her and said she had beautiful feet. She spoke about that as if he was sicker then a rapist.
Needless to say, she kept a big distance from me after that.
oh wow, that is very unfortunate for any foot man!
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yep. been called wierd by some and by others I was the man. Just really depended on how open orclosed off the lady was. Funny thing though anyone who can get weirded out because someone finds someting on their body attractive has kinda missed the point anyway.
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The first girl that I ever got feet from made it clear she wasn't into it but we'd done everything and I made it seem like I just wanted to try something new.
After a while I started to get comfortable with just going for her feet without hesitation or feelings of awkwardness and I'd just grab her foot and start sucking her toes or licking her soles.
Until one evening that I'd planned out and wined and dined her, got back to my place and ripped off these sexy heels I'd thought she'd been teasing me with all night and went straight for some toe sucking. When she said in the most annoyed voice "you suck my toes too much". Too much? I thought, this has been a problem for some time and now she tells me? The foot action pretty much ended that night and the relationship shortly after that.
It was too bad because I'm really into sniffing and she had the most erotic scent to her feet that I've ever experienced on a woman.
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I've probably told 20 to 30 girls about my fetish now, and never once had a negative reaction. Now some were more into it than others, but all of them were willing to let me indulge in it. I think it makes a huge difference how you approach it with them. If you bring it up in a fun, playful way which is how I usually do it, I think that's the key. Whereas if you are creepy or aggressive about it, I can see that not going over so well.
quote:Originally posted by oneagain: I've had some women that got freaked out and it ruined the relationship.
I think some women are really really uncomfortable and have this self-hatred towards their feet for whatever reason.
One woman told me I reminded her of this one creep who followed her around a grocery store, aisle by aisle and then walked up to her and said she had beautiful feet. She spoke about that as if he was sicker then a rapist.
Needless to say, she kept a big distance from me after that.
Pity...she did have wonderful feet and always wore flip flops
...but to leave this post on a happier note...I have had a few girlfriends that dug it...and did whatever I wanted to...sniff 'em, self-worship, whatever I wanted, they were more then turned on by my foot attention.
She always wore flip-flops--but copped an attitude when you told her you're into feet?
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quote:Originally posted by oneagain: I've had some women that got freaked out and it ruined the relationship.
I think some women are really really uncomfortable and have this self-hatred towards their feet for whatever reason.
One woman told me I reminded her of this one creep who followed her around a grocery store, aisle by aisle and then walked up to her and said she had beautiful feet. She spoke about that as if he was sicker then a rapist.
Needless to say, she kept a big distance from me after that.
Pity...she did have wonderful feet and always wore flip flops
...but to leave this post on a happier note...I have had a few girlfriends that dug it...and did whatever I wanted to...sniff 'em, self-worship, whatever I wanted, they were more then turned on by my foot attention.
She always wore flip-flops--but copped an attitude when you told her you're into feet?
It happens more than you think. Lots of girls wear flip-flops, and a good portion of them are disgusted by feet. I guess they just want to be comfortable.
quote:Originally posted by Rider Aldebaran: It happens more than you think. Lots of girls wear flip-flops, and a good portion of them are disgusted by feet. I guess they just want to be comfortable.
Totally and sadly agree Rider.
There are even women that will say they have a shoe fetish or even refer to it as a foot fetish...yet it isn't their feet getting worshiped or them worshiping another foot/shoe...it is just an obsession with buying shoes and hiding their own feet.
Guess when we are raised, it is humorous as kids to say 'stinky feet' or something degrading about feet and everyone accepts it...and some get locked into feet being forever ugly or discusting or some sort of curse.
Glad I only had a few bad rejections...and several really fantastic accpetions...but the bad ones really make you feel crummy and like you have a Scarlet Letter emblazed upon you!
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