posted
well, i have other fetishes too, and they came as i got older. and i do perfer them over my foot fetish, but they can only be performed during sex. however, i can give a girl a foot massage anytime. so feet are always the easiest.
-------------------- "Nina, this is my house, you work for me, and I want to suck your toes." -Big Trouble (2002) Posts: 1855 | Registered: Nov 2007
| IP: Logged |
posted
Its funny you ask this, and im probably the only one here that will answer a big fat fucking YES, but not because I want it too. after 4 and a half years with my wife, and 4 and a half years of passive aggressive behavior from her over the subject; I have at times almost come to a place of utter distain and hatred at times, deep within my heart over the subject. Now, I pretty much have come to jerking off on the internet after shes gone to sleep. Thing that pisses me off the most is she loves the parts of the fetish where we shop for shoes, or give her foot rubs...But there are NO foot jobs what so ever, no foot play, sex is all about her and when/IF my turn comes around, she is just disengaged, watches tv etc etc...Like I could buy a pair of those fake feet or better yet, just jerk off on the internet because there is more intimacy/interaction in still pictures and foot vids than there are in my real life. It has even started to change me inside at times, I can still feel it strong, but when it comes to us...I BITCH royally when she asks me to rub her feet anymore, because I know shes over there, "I know youre just a disgusting fuck, but this feels good so ill let you do it". Or she shows me a pair of shoes she thinks I will jump for, and I know it serves no purpose other than for me to just buy the mother fuckers that she might wear one time, I never see again and STILL dont get SHIT for it other than aggravation....This feels good to get off my chest, I cant talk about this anywhere else or to anyone but FUCK, I had to say it. Ive been holding that in for atleast 2 years...Ive just recently hit my breaking point.
Posts: 30 | Registered: Apr 2010
| IP: Logged |
posted
KaunNarazu, I can relate. My GF was okay with my fetish when I told her about it, but it's been reduced to the point where now she wants footrubs, but will retract when it gets more intimate than kissing, and now I find myself at a point where I'm not into rubbing her feet as much as SHE wants, she pouts and says, "I thought you liked my feet." As much of a sweetie as she is, I'm starting to feel like the only one getting benefit out of this foot revelation is her :|
Complaining aside, the initial guilt I used to feel when browsing the net looking at other feet for my fix has subsided to a point I can now comfortably live with it, given the circumstances.
Posts: 8 | Registered: May 2009
| IP: Logged |
posted
YES! Thank you...Im even so bold as to do it in the same room with her while shes sleeping. Im a Ninja like that. Cause heaven forbid she finds out that im doing it, then its, "wtf! thats so hurtful, blah blah". But a few months ago I caught her cheating with another dude (Like it hadnt gone to the point of sex, just on an emotional level, like, sending pictures "Oooh you look so hot" etc)
Fed me a bunch of shit that I dont look at her that way and she needed fulfillment in that area because it was something I wasnt giving her. Which is Bullshit, I always tell her those things, all be it less frequent, litteraly whorship the ground she walks on and she does THIS to me?! Cuss me out over me fulfilling MY need on the net because she wont have jack to do with it, but its ok to do it with another person for her? I wanted to hit the nearest fetish bar (sadly none are close at all) and lick/foot fuck every fem sole in the building.... No intercourse..just foot sex
Posts: 30 | Registered: Apr 2010
| IP: Logged |
posted
I also like to add, and I'm not sure if it's just me, but because my girl hasn't yet become super open minded as I'd like her to be , whenever I get a chance to grab her feet or tickle them, it's extra nice for me because it's not the norm with her. So it's like, I'm able to get turned on by her now with her other assets, but when I can get just a little feet action from her, it's like, Woaa.
Posts: 707 | Registered: Feb 2005
| IP: Logged |
quote:Originally posted by KaunNarazu: YES! Thank you...Im even so bold as to do it in the same room with her while shes sleeping. Im a Ninja like that. Cause heaven forbid she finds out that im doing it, then its, "wtf! thats so hurtful, blah blah". But a few months ago I caught her cheating with another dude (Like it hadnt gone to the point of sex, just on an emotional level, like, sending pictures "Oooh you look so hot" etc)
Fed me a bunch of shit that I dont look at her that way and she needed fulfillment in that area because it was something I wasnt giving her. Which is Bullshit, I always tell her those things, all be it less frequent, litteraly whorship the ground she walks on and she does THIS to me?! Cuss me out over me fulfilling MY need on the net because she wont have jack to do with it, but its ok to do it with another person for her? I wanted to hit the nearest fetish bar (sadly none are close at all) and lick/foot fuck every fem sole in the building.... No intercourse..just foot sex
It's sounding like a divorce might be on the horizon mate - why do stuff to hurt each other intentionally rather than just walk away?
posted
Nice to see this topic has got some attention. For me personally, my foot fetish has kinda of evolved throughout the years. My tastes are extremely particular so I wouldn't say I'm as hardcore of a fetishist as some of you.
Currently, my new gf is so vehemently against foot fetishism and feet in general, that I haven't even told her about my fetish. I don't think I even will, I don't want things to become weird between us. For me it's okay though, because I would be lying if I said her feet are even a 6 or a 7 out of 10 for me. I don't know, they just don't turn me on like my ex's feet used to (which were practically the only good thing about my ex but that's a different story).
Like LovelyLadies said, I'm appreciating the other assets of women now, not just their feet as I did in the past. I still do use the internet to fulfill "those" needs of mine that I can't with my current gf, I just hope it won't disappear in time in the bedroom.
Posts: 53 | Registered: Aug 2007
| IP: Logged |
posted
I think that I admire many qualities of my lady but her feet are included in that. I would have a hard time having to only express part of what makes me happy because she wouldn't like it just like there may be things that she doesn't like but I will do because she likes it. Once cheating comes into play, it is a long hard road to recovery and trusting again very very difficult. There is no excuse to cheat, excuses given are to justify what cheaters no to be worng behavior. When they say it hasn't led to sex yest, how can you really tell? it is obvious they will lie because cheating is betrayal. Emotional level is possible but unchecked will almost certainly lead to a physical encounter. very few people will admit to the physical piece of infidelity unless they are caught red handed. I would be inclined not to believe that someone who has committed emotional adultery has not crossed over. I feel bad that people would hold a passive aggressive scenario over their head like do this or I won't do that etc. it's sad persoanlly I care about myself to much to suffer that way when there are people who are willing to be open and engaged. If my lady stood and said that she would no longer involve herself with any foot realted activity to test me, then she would find that she made a mistake and that I would not stay. That of course is just me.
-------------------- New Ship but she's got the right name. You treat her like a lady and she'll always bring you home. Posts: 4051 | Registered: Apr 2005
| IP: Logged |
posted
I was seeing this chick,she was a stripper. So she would get to my place after work and love me rubbing her feet.That was fine to start off with but then she had a bottle smash on her big toe at work and lost her nail. It grossed me out big time!!! She was a cool chick but I had to cut it off, she still wanted foot rubs but I just could not do it I bailed on her a few times and have not seen her since. Other than that I still love my fetish and the kinky fucker I am.lol
Posts: 220 | Registered: Jan 2009
| IP: Logged |
posted
Yes it has happened to me, from the age of 17 to 28 I had no inclination towards feet in a sexual sense I didn't even think about them during sex, taking into account that before that time from the age of about seven and massively from the age of 11 I had a serious love of feet,after about 28 the love of female feet came back to a degree far in excess of what it was before. I have no idea why it happened but I'm glad My love of feet returned....they are art.
Posts: 340 | Registered: Nov 2007
| IP: Logged |
posted
i've spent the last year or so with a girl who resented my fetish. i thought we might be able to work it out and we could get build up to something if i played it right, the sad story is i dont think it would ever happen. she was too self centred and stubborn to ever let it happen, she was never really into it and felt that it was offensive towards her needs and self confidence.
we broke up last week and im actually pretty happy about it because the last few months had become so un-barable, especially during sex where i would sometimes touch her feet for a few seconds if she let me or accidentally feel them brush past me. i wanted them so so so bad that i had to train myself to shut it out and deny myself of fantasizing about them, in hope she would notice i hadnt asked to touch them and i was in total self control. the truth was a was actually damaging a part of myself, i know that sounds extreme, but i was restricted and a part of me and my soul was being destroyed. the ins and outs of who's fault it was is neither here nor there. i discussed it big time here on wus and i'd made some past mistakes, but the bottom line is it would never work.
i now feel slightly uncomfortable about my fetish in the sense that im frightened to scare another girl off with it, but, never ever ever will i go through that again. my next girlfriend must be accepting of my fetish to a point. i went through so much mental strain that it is good to be free and sinlge and not have to worry again! im thinking about treating myself to a one off foot session with an escort soon to get that hunger back!
Posts: 483 | Registered: Jan 2007
| IP: Logged |
UBBFriend: Email this page to someone!
Printer-friendly view of this topic
![[Smile]](smile.gif)
There's so many fun things you can do with them. Hehe![[Big Grin]](biggrin.gif)
, whenever I get a chance to grab her feet or tickle them, it's extra nice for me because it's not the norm with her. So it's like, I'm able to get turned on by her now with her other assets, but when I can get just a little feet action from her, it's like, Woaa.
