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Not really knowing who to turn to, ive decided to turn to my pals on Wus.
So im hooking up with this girl last night, ive known her for a while and because of the situation we're both in we have decided to hook up have sex etc...
Well we had sex for the first time together last night, and the good news is i was standing to attention ;-) for what was a big problem for me as you may have read from other posts.
We had sex, i finished up and that was that, then this morning i had the horrible memory of putting the condom on the wrong way then turning it round and putting it on the right way, not thinking anything of it, we were both pretty drunk.
Fuck, what an idiot. I have no idea if i had pre cum on it, it only happened for a split second, but i really don't know what to do, i really do not want a kid. She's not on the pill which has made me really worry. She also doesn't know this happened. Im just so stuck of what to do, i guess there is nothing i can do a part from wait and see if she has her period right? Everytime i think of it, i feel sick!
Has this happened to you guys before? I keep thinking, of all the people world that don't use a condom and keep wondering what my chances are.
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Thanks Scotty you have made feel a lot better, im just usually sooooo careful thats why im completely freaking out! But you have made feel better!
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I'll go along with the others...I think you are in the free & clear.
I understand your paranoia about pre-cum...but unless you were um...really 'salvating' and super aroused before the condom flip-flop...I would doubt you would have had some early swimmers to be worried about.
Just pay attention within a months time if she has her 'cycle'!!!
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haha happens to me all time time. seriously man if your so thick with swimmers that your pre cum touches the right side of a woman then maybe your supposed to have kids. I would take a step back, breath, and probably go have some fun with her again because chances are she is not gonna be preggos by you
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This is all really making me feel so much better about the situation, maybe because your all saying stuff i want to hear.
Like from one of my last posts, when im with a new girl, i really get in a rut and worry i wont get a boner and then that was that time when it happened and i felt so awful for not being aroused. Well it nearly happened last night but luckly i did stand to attention so im thinking (hoping) there was hardly any pre cum there because i was struggling to get aroused.
Deep, deep down i feel im gonna be alright and there is absolutely nothing gonna happen but i just keep getting myself paranoid and feeling ill from the thought!
I guess its just a waiting game now but i feel im gonna be miserable until i know!
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If you didn't feel something different/holy shit moment until after you finished the universe probably saved you. Physiologically - sperm needs to travel up past the cervix - the cervix is there to weed out the weeds if you know what I mean.
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It is what it is. Who knows? I'm hoping you're safe, but relax and try to stay calm. Give her a foot massage to add feet into this story!
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If they concieved, spiritually, they'd feel love @ that moment or fuck what just happened in that moment. Not after the fact. After the fact is guilt, during is fear. Fear is the antithesis of love. Some thing there are 6 emotions, I think shame/revenge, etc are versions of Fear.
Physiologically, the cervix (some call it sperm motel) is a narrow opening that is meant to keep out foreign or unworthy sperm if you will. The sperm has to pass up thru there to get on deck to head to the fallopian tubes. So depending on the exact circumstances it may be more remote than likely. Not a doctor, but been an advocate for others as long as I can remember. Hope that I am making more sense these days.
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Precum doesn't have any sperm in it man - it's kind of a lubricant
You're good.
And even in the 1 in a million chance that ONE little swimmer made it through and did a job sometimes millions can't...most condoms are spermicidal, bruh.
quote:Originally posted by Andy-Laa: Precum doesn't have any sperm in it man - it's kind of a lubricant
You're good.
And even in the 1 in a million chance that ONE little swimmer made it through and did a job sometimes millions can't...most condoms are spermicidal, bruh.
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