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Trying to think about dumb stuff will probaly make u go soft...think about pleasing her....switch positions.....a good jerk before u have the encounter....i use Magnums, but when i use the reg. condoms, i last longer also..
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quote:Originally posted by Andy-Laa: I have the opposite problem lol - I take wayyyy too long.
I'm in that same boat. Not more than 3-4 times in 30 years of marriage have we done anything close to a quickie. l love the ending but I love enjoying the "getting there" as well.
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before you cum think about dead hedgehogs or stinkin' dog shit on your shoes
you'll get there bud, maybe she's too tight?
either masturbate before sex so you're on your second not-so-sensitive round or masturbate more regular so you de-sensitize your cock
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Well, thanks for all the awesome replies you guys and you will all be happy to know, i think ive cracked it!
Confidence - thats the key. I had this thought to myself of, hey this is my dick and i know how to use it, if im about to cum, i'll pull out, chill for a second then start again, staying in control of all the moments in the sex, keeping my cool, staying confident. I think it works...wait infact i know it works. We were in doggy last night and she said it was the best sex she had ever had and that she came for about 30 seconds.
By far one of the best compliments ive ever had haha! And to think a few weeks previous i would so scared about what 'might' happen ya know?