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I sometimes see why girls are cautious about some of us. After reading some emails and forum comments I can see some of us treating the girls like they don't exist above the ankle. As long as you don't fall into that, you should be fine. If she doesn't respect your kinks and you're not being a creep with them, then that's her fault - not yours. As for the escort, yeah... I wouldn't.
quote:Originally posted by gaaserud: [QUOTE] I think i will go with this approach. It will be more weird - i think - if we sit down and have a conversation about it.
I never "told" her i like boobs either:)
My thing is sucking on toes, so i will try it soon and see how she reacts. If she screams or something like that, then i will "tell" her.
I will let you know how it turns out.
(Love this forum, btw)
Well, we are all foot brothers (and sisters). We feel your pain and celebrate you joy!
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Go balls deep in her and then just grab her feet and jam em' in your mouth. She tries to yank them away just grab em' right back and she will realize what you like. You won't have to say a thing
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LeDaemon nailed it. You don't need to have a conversation. Just next time you're intimate, start sucking her toes while fucking her. If after you're done she engages you in some pillow talk and question it, don't deny it and confidently tell her how sexy her feet are. Make no apologies whatsoever and if you're on a time limit trying to figure out what to do on the road trip, if you can recharge after fucking quite quickly, perhaps suggest a footjob to her to take it to the next level right then and there. How she reacts will allow you to gauge how open minded and cool she's gonna be about the whole deal.
I think if you gave her a good fucking, and you must satisfy her sexually to some degree anyway if you've been together for a year, she's probably going to give it a whirl. You're also likely to cum in her harder than you ever have in your life if you've been thinking about sucking her toes for the past year and you finally fuckin' sack up and do it, you should rock her world, again scoring points in the likelyhood that she's going to want to recieve similar type treatment in the future and use her feet proactively to bring out the animal in you.
I also got a foot job from my wife on our first date and we had quite a funny conversation about it because she declared herself having a "foot phobia" and finding feet gross and disgusting...Well, I had some serious enlighting to do and before I knew it I was sucking, fucking, licking, kissing, rubbing, getting jerked off, getting massages, trampled, smothered, kicked and every other fucking thing under the sun by her sexy feet. If a chick is into you, she can accept anything you're into. If she's cool as fuck, she's likely to not just accept it but get into it. If by chance she can't, well why fucking deny yourself the things you crave most sexually. I mean if you're cool with a chick that doesn't satisfy you completely or allow you to fufill your fantasies, then sure, keep it on the tuck but I could never be satisfied that way myself. I don't think you are either or you wouldn't be considering hiring an escort. Better to lay it all on the table, not thru conversation because that's awkward and unnecessary. Just take the bull by the horns, work some foot fetish activities into your next sexual encounter and see where it goes. It's really not a big deal. If she makes it one, and makes it one for some retarded reason she simply can't deal with, then it's best to know that now before you get in any deeper and if you break up over it, well you got norway's finest to ease your pain.
If she's ok with it, you're all set. She may not jump right into it, but I think odds are she's more than likely to be at least ok with it. Then you don't have to let it bother you or consume you or look elsewhere anymore and can slowly work it in there more and more as she gets more comfortable with it. I think you have better odds she'll be extremely into it and be all over the opportunity to satisfy you in a whole new bunch of ways than there is she'll be freaked out to the point of a break up. I can't tell you there's no chance of that happening but those chances are slim and if some dumb bitch would dump you and end an otherwise solid relationship over the fact you find her feet attractive and sexy, then you're probably doing yourself a favor.
Look at how scared you are that "if you tell her the relationship might be over". Even if she doesn't like it, she would probably "be scared that if she can't figure out how to hangle it, the relationship might be over." So she'll probably at least try and that's all you need. Just show her a good time, be good to those peds and that princess and she'll be good to you back.
If she is cool with it, my biggest recomendation is not to go fucking foot fuckin, mad man wild and forget that she's got several other parts to her that you showed affection to for the past year. Don't go to crazy just cause you get a green light and overwhelm her, that could come off freaky and really make you appear more dishonest for hiding it so long. Just don't make it a big deal but be sure to work it in and make your foot play fun to explore with her rather than something you expect her to just be as into as you are once you tell her about it. If you play it cool and just make it part of your sexual repertoire with confidence and conviction, you are not going to have any problems. I would almost gaurentee it.
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haha. In the time it took me to write this, having to stop to go change the little fella's arse in the middle, Bluetoelover came in here and summed it up perfectly in two fucking lines.
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I'm not going to address how you tell her. It's not something you have to "have a talk" about--you're not coming out of the closet, you just want to suck her toes. Big deal. She's already letting you fuck her.
But I will comment on your fear about it endangering your relationship. Look, you've been together for a year, you're fucking each other, clearly she thinks you're an awesome guy. The fact that you're afraid of your fetish ruining your relationship means you actually care enough about this girl to keep things going. But what good is a relationship that isn't built on solid understanding of each other. If she runs out on you then guess what? There's a ton of other girls who would actually be turned on by you sucking their toes. Find one. They're more common than you think, and it's not because they have this inbuilt fetish for having their toes sucked. It has more to do with them being attracted to you and wanting to please you as much as you please them. So go be that awesome guy. My girlfriend loves it when I stick her feet in my face during sex. Says I have a certain "satisfied" look that turns her on.
Now all that said, what's with the escort? You're afraid to tell your girlfriend about your fetish, so you want to hire an escort to fill that need instead. If you go through with it then you'll have two little secrets that you think will destroy your relationship. The foot thing isn't a big deal, but have fun if she finds out about the escort or your guilt takes over. Temptations sucks but guilt is worse. Think about it.
Best of luck to you.
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Agree. The escort is off the table.
I will give it a go tonight, and report back. Its kind of a great day to do it also, because she is going to a work party tonight, and i guess she is more into new things when she is drunk:)
Thanks again, guys.
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I wouldn't tell her. I would take the approach I took, and it has worked out quite well.
Met my current fiance in freshman year of College. She went to my high school, always thought she had gorgeous feet, very cute girl. Anyways, about 2 months into going out, we were messing around in my bed, and she was naked except her socks.
I was going down on her and I just started like kissing down her legs to her feet and just took her socks off. I didn't suck her toes or do anything to them though, out of fear she would be grossed out. I just took them off. She didn't mind. Few minutes later she was going down on me, and I started just like kinda fingering her, grabbed her leg, kissed up it, brought it up, and went for it. Just starting sucking and kissing her feet. She instantly pulled away, and asked do you like that? I said, I dunno, not really just felt like doing something to you. She said reluctantly, okay. I could tell she was kinda like this is strange lol.
Next day she asked me again, if I have a foot fetish, and I said no, but you have cute feet. She said thanks. And that was really it.
To this day, almost 9 years later, I suck and worship her toes when we have sex, she goes down on me etc. And to this day I deny having a foot fetish, and she really doesn't bring it up. We have a great relationship, she is my best friend. And it's become kind of our thing. My advice to you would be take the same route. Just kind of just deny that you like it, but do it anyways you know? If she truly likes you, she won't mind. My fiance now asks me what color to get when she gets pedicures, she even sometimes puts them in my face when we are having sex.
The one thing I have yet to do with her is a footjob, we have done it maybe for a few seconds. I am working up the courage to ask for it.
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quote:Originally posted by ddash1985: What kind of bullshit is going on in this thread lol?
Seriously lol.
Are people really that afraid to say that they have a foot fetish to their own woman?
I'm wondering the same thing. I always figured if you absolutely own it, bring it up without even feeling or thinking its weird, chances are good your girl will pretty much think it isn't weird either and go with it.
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