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I had a pretty weird experience chatting to a girl on yahoo IM yesterday. Apologies, Its kinda long but shows how hypocritical and nasty people can be about foot fetishism
Back story: I am on that kinky social network of FetLife. I am a member of a yahoo IM group and decided to send a chat request to this girl. She seemed pretty cool on her profile, but said one of her turn offs was foot fetishes. I didn't take much notice because I can talk about other kinky stuff as well.
We did chat for a while, even cammed and she did view my FetLife profile. Her reaction was "Oh you are one of those people". I let it go and we talked about other stuff. She was cute, not remarkable but we just went on chatting and camming. She did flirt a bit and commented on how cute I was, but just wanted to chat about the whole kink scene. She seemed bored and suddenly turned her cam off. I messaged her and asked her what the problem was, did she want me to show her my cock or something?!
Her: I wasn't turned on. It's just.... the foot thing is a real turn-off. Even seeing a fetish photo of it. And knowing you're into it.
Me: Like I said, I didn't talk about the foot thing. I respected your boundaries on that.
Her: You didn't need to talk about it. It was plastered all over your profile I'm not trying to make fun of you. Just let you know how much of a turn-off it is, for me.... It's such a turn-off that it takes away any sexual feelings completely. I didn't want to see you on cam, that's how much a turnoff (sic).
Me: Why is it such a turn off for you?
Her: Because feet are for walking, dude. It's just so gross that it can be a sexual thing for some people.
Me: Well I feel kinda bad for adding you to my yahoo chat now. Like I said, I didn't talk about about feet during our chats. Forget it!
Her: I mean, I don't understand why you contacted me in the first place. It's in my profile that it's a turn off. And then you come waltzing in with "foot foot OMG FOOT" all over your profile. I originally felt insulted and ignored. I wanted to give you a chance. But I'm still not "feeling it" *shrug* Oh well, at least we tried I guess.
Me: I just wanted a chat and a bit of a laugh. I didn't honestly know you were that repulsed by feet.
End of chat
(To reiterate again, at this point and during our chat, not once did I bring up foot fetishism with her at all, she did, because I respected her boundaries like she said on her profile).
FetLife itself is supposed to be this great website where people respected each others fetishes/kinks but I guess I was wrong. All I wanted was a chat but turned out to be a rude, narrow-minded, nasty-mouthed bitch! It left me in a very pissed mood and shocked by her attitude!
Have any guys out there had similar experiences like me? I just wanted to share my experience with you
Wu's forum, by the way, is the friendliest forum out there and the members treats each other with respect. I am so glad to be a member!
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Her: Because feet are for walking, dude. It's just so gross that it can be a sexual thing for some people.
I think I would have replied to that statement with, "Well, darling, the ass is for shitting and the breasts are for milking newborns so maybe you should get as turned off as you feel right now if you find out from any other guys in the future that they're either into one, the other, or both."
End of chat.
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Aren't legs for walking as well, and asses too? You have to move your legs at your ass to walk.
I can see both sides of the argument. I'm not into asses and find a slight smelly ass a major sickening turn off, but a partially smelly foot can really turn me on. If a chic wanted me to eat her ass out and I said "no way", then she told me, "well you like feet so why not" it wouldn't change me.
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Hm, every girl that's told me that they hate feet have usually let me give them a footrub and totally changed their perspective on the matter. Can't please them all I guess.
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I have a profile on Fetlife but I find this community is too "dark" for me.
I'm a little more open about having a foot fetish and why not!? I shoot models and will ask if they'll allow from time to time and there some foot photos in my photograph portfolios.
As stated even the kinkiest people sometimes stop at foot fetish.
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Hmmm, I think I would have been very pissed too. Ok, she said the foot thing is a turn off in her profile, but surely not everyone starts a chat with their perfect match on this site, then relocates with a new job and starts a family, you just wanted a chat. And she claims she wanted to give you a chance, and you didn't mention feet, and she even said that you're cute and flirted with you, but then shortly afterwards turned the cam off claiming the foot fetish thing is too much of a turn off, yet she wanted to give you a chance? Sounds like she should have said she wanted to give herself a chance of coping with this obvious hangup she's got, and she's the one who failed "the chance". Yeah, if this happened to me I doubt I'd be asking for an address to send flowers to her Posts: 52 | Registered: Nov 2012
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Fetlife is a joke..it's NOT full of open minded people, it's douchebags that think they're into spanking or bloodplay or stupid crap like that...the foot audience is pretty small there... it's just a dumb site..
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Sounds to me like there's a lot more going on with that chick than she's letting on. I mean, there are plenty of fetishes that I don't like at all, but I don't go out of my way to disparage people who are into it. Live and let live I say, and I'm pretty confident that the vast majority of people on this forum feel the same way.
This doesn't surprise me though, 'cause it seems to me that of all the fetishes, foot fetishism get the least respect from the mainstream society; just my opinion.
Way back when I was getting started with Feet Fair, I was planning a trip to Florida, and I contacted some local models, and made some bookings. There was one particular model who hadn't even heard of foot fetishism, but she told me she was game, and ready to do new things. After several email conversations, I asked her to give me her phone number, so I could call her to reconfirm, the day before our planned shoot, and she agreed.
So the day before our shoot, I call her, and she tells me that she's changed her mind; the whole thing is too "weird" and "creepy" for her taste, and that's she's passing on our gig. I told her that I respected her feelings and let it go at that.
Well guess what? I a few months later, I found out she was doing hardcore porn, and I even got to see some pics of her getting her face blasted with cum from several guys, bukkake style. So let's review, she finds foot modeling a turn-off, but doesn't mind taking several loads to the face, where's the logic in that?
All I have to say is thanks goodness for Wu's forum because since it's a dedicated foot forum, we all understand and respect each other.
BTW, I have an account on Fet Life too, but I hardly ever visit, 'cause I do find that there are a lot of narrow minded folks there, that won't give you the time of day, if you're not into their very specific type of fetish.
quote:Originally posted by Fair Adam: Sounds to me like there's a lot more going on with that chick than she's letting on. I mean, there are plenty of fetishes that I don't like at all, but I don't go out of my way to disparage people who are into it. Live and let live I say, and I'm pretty confident that the vast majority of people on this forum feel the same way.
This doesn't surprise me though, 'cause it seems to me that of all the fetishes, foot fetishism get the least respect from the mainstream society; just my opinion.
Way back when I was getting started with Feet Fair, I was planning a trip to Florida, and I contacted some local models, and made some bookings. There was one particular model who hadn't even heard of foot fetishism, but she told me she was game, and ready to do new things. After several email conversations, I asked her to give me her phone number, so I could call her to reconfirm, the day before our planned shoot, and she agreed.
So the day before our shoot, I call her, and she tells me that she's changed her mind; the whole thing is too "weird" and "creepy" for her taste, and that's she's passing on our gig. I told her that I respected her feelings and let it go at that.
Well guess what? I a few months later, I found out she was doing hardcore porn, and I even got to see some pics of her getting her face blasted with cum from several guys, bukkake style. So let's review, she finds foot modeling a turn-off, but doesn't mind taking several loads to the face, where's the logic in that?
All I have to say is thanks goodness for Wu's forum because since it's a dedicated foot forum, we all understand and respect each other.
BTW, I have an account on Fet Life too, but I hardly ever visit, 'cause I do find that there are a lot of narrow minded folks there, that won't give you the time of day, if you're not into their very specific type of fetish.
It's just amazing people have so much hatred for it. Very well said man, I know this community looks out for each other.
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quote:Originally posted by seattlesoleman: Fetlife is a joke..it's NOT full of open minded people, it's douchebags that think they're into spanking or bloodplay or stupid crap like that...the foot audience is pretty small there... it's just a dumb site..
To be honest, the site has deteriorated in attitude. I do go to these munches, and I have made friends out of it, but the site has a really serious attitude problem. It's getting boring quickly. The scary thing is that people are more comfortable talking about "fetishes" such as scat, incest, slaves, etc. but when feet is brought up? Ewwwwww, yuck, disgusting!!! Bunch of fucking hypocrites if you ask me. A large percentage of men on that site think they are "it" being a Dom and the women have a massive ego and treat people like shit, thinking that society owes them something. Luckily, the footgirls and models here are well-grounded, cool and sexy!
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It's purely is sad that this young lady doesn't have an open mind for people with foot fetishes. It's her loss on this issue, because maybe she could have had some beautiful feet on her, and it's not like we're asking for her to do anything with our feet, but we have a love for female feet. She could have experienced something beautiful and relaxing with a foot massage and some foot worship as well. And if she didn't know that some guys who happen to have a foot fetish treat women better than some guys who don't....:-) Wu's is the friendliest forum I have been on and the solidarity to foot fetishism is incredible. Keep up the good work!!!!
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quote:Originally posted by tyvianc: It's purely is sad that this young lady doesn't have an open mind for people with foot fetishes. It's her loss on this issue, because maybe she could have had some beautiful feet on her, and it's not like we're asking for her to do anything with our feet, but we have a love for female feet. She could have experienced something beautiful and relaxing with a foot massage and some foot worship as well. And if she didn't know that some guys who happen to have a foot fetish treat women better than some guys who don't....:-) Wu's is the friendliest forum I have been on and the solidarity to foot fetishism is incredible. Keep up the good work!!!!
Excellent post +1
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