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Yesterday i took a girl back to my place to have sex, btw i am secretive about my fetish, anyway she were naked in my bed expecting me to just shove it in but i was just not getting hard, its was very embarrising as she is obviously thinking im a girl butt naked in your bed & touchin you & your limp, & obviously the more i tried it just wern't happening i were panicking, so what i did was closed my eyes while she touching me & were thinkin of all my feet fantasies lol, & that worked but i still wern't fully hard, also do any of you guys find it hard to put it in the whole? everytime im hard & trying to put it in the hole, it starts going softer as im just basically not turned on barely at all by the vagina, i just wish that i didn't have a fetish & were turned on by breasts, & pussy, is there any way to be turned on more by other things? please help
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Your fetish has become an obsession. You need should see somebody about it. Dont get me wrong, i get aroused by feet in a big way, but not to the detriment of everything else. If fact, nothing gets me going more than going down on my wife.
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All I can say is incorporate her feet into the sex act. Start with her feet as foreplay until you get fully aroused and then dip your wick in her puss! You'll have to get over the secretive bit if you want to move forward. If she's over at your place naked and ready for action I really doubt a woman is going to kick you out of the sack if you play with her feet a little bit first.
My favorite position that get the best of both is to penetrate her missionary style, but have legs bent up over your shoulders where you can easily maneuver her soles to cover your face. Ain't no lady gonna stop you in the middle of that while hearts are pounding and each are breaking a sweat!
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I feel you dude. Happened to me a few times when I was younger. It SUCKED! One time with a sorority girl that decided to tell all of her sisters.lol. But she was just as embarassed as I was. Anyway. The solution. Stop getting off to feet on the comp. Actually hold off on getting off. Don't do it so often. You don't want to get to used to you and your computer as a stimulus.
When I went through basic 7 weeks long I didn't see one naked woman or feet. Actually there was a period where I wsn't aroused for a month(seeing nothing but naked guys will do that to a straight guy). Anyway there was nothing that I wanted more than a wet vagina. Feet? No. I still liked them but it was sex I wanted. Abstain for a week or 2. No wu's no self relief. Oh...and work out too. The next woan that comes into your bed after that doesn't stand a chance.
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get her toes crimped over your nose. once those pheremones start kickin in, your brain can't help but cause an instant and very hard boner!!! Mine are amazing
...not to mention, she'll probably look at you like you're a freak (which is even more of a turn on)!!!
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i would say eat a lot of pussy - girls love it and you can get a lot of foot sniffing oppotunities in down there.
when it comes to laying pipe - get her legs over your shoulders - that way you can sniff of lick her soles quite easilly.
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quote:Originally posted by ThisisMe373: Yesterday i took a girl back to my place to have sex, btw i am secretive about my fetish, anyway she were naked in my bed expecting me to just shove it in but i was just not getting hard, its was very embarrising as she is obviously thinking im a girl butt naked in your bed & touchin you & your limp, & obviously the more i tried it just wern't happening i were panicking, so what i did was closed my eyes while she touching me & were thinkin of all my feet fantasies lol, & that worked but i still wern't fully hard, also do any of you guys find it hard to put it in the whole? everytime im hard & trying to put it in the hole, it starts going softer as im just basically not turned on barely at all by the vagina, i just wish that i didn't have a fetish & were turned on by breasts, & pussy, is there any way to be turned on more by other things? please help
My opinion, "Yesterday i took a girl back to my place to have sex.. " that's your problem. If what I'm thinking is right, she wasn't your girlfriend, or a person you love. It's very different. When you love someone, and when you don't, your body totally acts differently. Furthermore, why would you just bring some girl for sex? I don't understand why people do that.... it's more than that... sex is an act of love, a bond, a communication between the one you love, why do people abuse it..
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I really love feet,but I also love kissing a woman,nice hips,ass and thighs and legs!!!I really feel bad for guys who can only get off on feet.Most women are going to get tired of that real quick.You might want to try viagra.
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My advice u shouldnt have to subject urself to restraint as some here have suggested. You should tell her u like feet and play with them until u get hard, then go in. If u like aspects of the fetish like i do, then ask if she has ever done stuff or will do stuff, I find speech can also stimulate.
But i understand u man, I'm also pretty obsessed with feet like that - not to the same extent though
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I had that same exact problem when I started having sex with my girlfriend (who i'm still with). Sometimes she would leave her socks on and it would be very hard for me to get hard I didn't want to seem like a freak and tell her to take her socks off, so I would just rub my leg against her feet and that seemed to work.
Luckily though, eventually I told her about my fetish, and she incorporates feet into the most wild fucks ever!
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I've been under the control of my fetish to the point that occassionally this happens to me too- but fortunately I'm married and my wife's more than happy to indulge me in foot stuff to get me going.
As Feeties said, the anxiety could be coming from the fact that it's casual sex. But if it's not, then you need to take Ladaemon's advice and incorporate her feet into foreplay and/or sex- hopefully she'll be game for it.
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quote:Originally posted by ThisisMe373: Yesterday i took a girl back to my place to have sex, btw i am secretive about my fetish, anyway she were naked in my bed expecting me to just shove it in but i was just not getting hard, its was very embarrising as she is obviously thinking im a girl butt naked in your bed & touchin you & your limp, & obviously the more i tried it just wern't happening i were panicking, so what i did was closed my eyes while she touching me & were thinkin of all my feet fantasies lol, & that worked but i still wern't fully hard, also do any of you guys find it hard to put it in the whole? everytime im hard & trying to put it in the hole, it starts going softer as im just basically not turned on barely at all by the vagina, i just wish that i didn't have a fetish & were turned on by breasts, & pussy, is there any way to be turned on more by other things? please help
My opinion, "Yesterday i took a girl back to my place to have sex.. " that's your problem. If what I'm thinking is right, she wasn't your girlfriend, or a person you love. It's very different. When you love someone, and when you don't, your body totally acts differently. Furthermore, why would you just bring some girl for sex? I don't understand why people do that.... it's more than that... sex is an act of love, a bond, a communication between the one you love, why do people abuse it..
My opinion is that if true love was required for arousal, people like Maury Povich would be out of business...
It's also my opinion that for you to frequent a website like Wu's and still ardently proclaim your opinions about sex (and frequently judge those of us here who don't share your opinion) is absolutely hypocritical.
To ThisisMe373: You may very well be overly obsessed with feet, in which case there has been some good advice already posted. However, it could also be due to a sudden change in your lifestyle. Have you been overly stressed recently, started working out hard, or changed your diet? When I'm stressed or ramp up my workout/go on a diet, my sex drive goes down for a little while - completely normal.
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a lot of advice was already given ........ i can't relate to you reaaly. feet are icing on the cake, but i like cake the same without icing.
i'm inclined to lean toward what GQguy said in addition to change in lifestyle type stressors mixed with how casual the encounter sounded.
I won't say what you should do, but for me, my lady and her needs come first to my liking her feet... that way, when i don't get feet, it doesn't bother me most times and never affects performance (heavy stress and fatique does that, but thankfully not frequently enough for her to complain).
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