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I had the same problema the first time I had sex, I just relaxed, give her some oral , then started kissing her legs and feet. At this point she asked if I had a foot fetish, I said " well.. I do like your feet ". And then it was easy as pie
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Your physician will certainly be able to recommend counselors. Additionally, most communities have some form of (and I hate to use the term...sounds far worse than it is) Mental Health Services. Yep, sounds awful.
People don't have a problem visiting a masseuse/masseur because their back aches. Neither should anyone be afraid to go speak with a good conversationalist - who really listens - to discuss the topic they know best...In this case, You. The discussion can be as general or as specific as you like. No personal judgments. You might leave examining your thoughts a little more closely but you'll leave feeling pretty good about yourself - as you should, anyway.
It's not hard to find. Well worth the time.
You may also find that you have no problem that a small application of bourbon can't fix (this last statement is not approved by any recognized organization other than, perhaps, the Bartender's Guild).
I do take your concerns seriously but couldn't resist the last paragraph.
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I don't normally post on this board, but I am almost a doctor, just finishing med school, so hopefully that gives me some credibility lol
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I had the same problem, and you'll be relieved to know it's very easy to fix, all you gotta do is stay away from the computer, it's very easy to treat the computer like getting a "fix" and great websites like this one can become your primary means of arousal, what youve gotta do is revert to the state where just thinking about a woman's feet gets you hard, where you dont need to see a picture, then rooting her will not be a problem, if you wanna be good at sex with women without fetish stimulation you can be, just tone down masturbating to once a week maximum, and only look at foot fetish sites once every 2 weeks, there is a such thing as too much of a good thing, do that and she'll be a very happy woman, remember her pussy is much better designed to stimulate you than is your hand or her feet, and abstinence will not only prime you for sex psychologically, but you'll become far more sensitive physically, you may not even need to think of her feet to get hard, but if you do, it'll probably make it better, I have a girlfriend and she doesnt know I have a foot fetish, but I dont care, I play with her feet enough, and the sex is amazing, remember the mind is powerful enough to do anything you want it to do, so just be a tough legend and stay off the pics
its very easy to get addicted to websites when you have a foot fetish
also, dont worry about therapy, it'll just make you feel more uncomfortable, just do what ive said, and you'll be fine, trust me on this
it's a simple problem, with an even simpler solution (do nothing) lol
hope that helps
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I have to agree with the future doc btw. Conrats on that (I'm almost ready for my R.N.). The mind is the biggest sex organ and it all starts and end in the mind.
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ahahhaha getting it into the whole, brotha thats sumthing u gots ta figure out on ya own, thats a fucking nature thing man.be cool
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Retrain your mind, no more web site pic's, think of it this way----when it's summer we see lot's of bare feet some good some bad and we get SELECTIVE, but when the winter comes and all the barefeet are gone, the first girl to pull her boot off at the coffee shop and expose a bare foot no matter how it looks makes us hard!! Also stop whacking it----if you cant, go to the sex shop and buy a pussy, the kind that suctions to the floor and fuck that when your horny, this will train your mind that the pussy is the way to relief and not your hand
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had sexy yesterday & didnt wank 5 days prior to it or look at pics & yes it was incredible i were going mad i were so horny & i wernt interested in here feet just wanted to fuck lol thanks alot guys really appreciate it!!!
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quote:Originally posted by ThisisMe373: had sexy yesterday & didnt wank 5 days prior to it or look at pics & yes it was incredible i were going mad i were so horny & i wernt interested in here feet just wanted to fuck lol thanks alot guys really appreciate it!!!
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