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Thanks guys & yeh i do think it could be down to stress which i have been quite alot, anxiety cus i was really worried about rising to the occation, & just taking her back for casual sex not really feeling comfortable with her didnt help, because with my ex i felt comfortable with her & got easily aroused without feet, but i am seeing her again tomorrow night & do feel alot more comfortable now, & havent masterbated for 2 days & do you have any tips to try get more interest in the vagina ect, anyway guys i will let you all know how it goes tomorrow lol thanks alot.
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Have had a few instances with a girl or two who were so not into anything but vanilla (not even sprinkles!!!) and didn't like the feet thing, weren't into oral (done to them too, wtf!!!) and things of the like. I can say I honestly didn't get into them much either.
Now on other occassions, someone I knew liked to do kinky and creative things, I had no issues. Sometimes it depends on the girl.
Want to get into pussy again, my solution is push your face in it and eat it for a LONG time. Enjoy the taste, smell, the wetness and most importantly, getting her off. I'd have to say going down on a girl is pretty much my favorite thing.
quote:Originally posted by Patrick: weren't into oral (done to them too, wtf!!!)
Wow, I thought all women liked receiving oral. What a boring, miserable sexual lifestyle - I'd definitely be turned off by a prude like that!
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girls not into guys going down on them is far more common than you'd think! i read some stats on that years back and was shocked as to how many aren't into that. some figure going down on the guy is part of being with one so they have gotten ok or fine with the idea.
my lady isn't too into me going down on her, but she won't say no. but doesn't mind if i never do. i do of course though!
RPM
p.s. my ex wanted nothing to do with me going down on her, but she always wanted to go down on me (for those who know me well.. you know how i felt about that)
quote:Originally posted by ThisisMe373: Yesterday i took a girl back to my place to have sex, btw i am secretive about my fetish, anyway she were naked in my bed expecting me to just shove it in but i was just not getting hard, its was very embarrising as she is obviously thinking im a girl butt naked in your bed & touchin you & your limp, & obviously the more i tried it just wern't happening i were panicking, so what i did was closed my eyes while she touching me & were thinkin of all my feet fantasies lol, & that worked but i still wern't fully hard, also do any of you guys find it hard to put it in the whole? everytime im hard & trying to put it in the hole, it starts going softer as im just basically not turned on barely at all by the vagina, i just wish that i didn't have a fetish & were turned on by breasts, & pussy, is there any way to be turned on more by other things? please help
My opinion, "Yesterday i took a girl back to my place to have sex.. " that's your problem. If what I'm thinking is right, she wasn't your girlfriend, or a person you love. It's very different. When you love someone, and when you don't, your body totally acts differently. Furthermore, why would you just bring some girl for sex? I don't understand why people do that.... it's more than that... sex is an act of love, a bond, a communication between the one you love, why do people abuse it..
yea i agree wit feeties i enjot foot play with my friend but for me to reach my full foot fetish potential it has to be with someone im dating or in love with.
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yeh it must have been the nerves more than anything as we have had sex twice since then & its been great, she comin down mine again today, is goin good!
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quote:Originally posted by ThisisMe373: yeh it must have been the nerves more than anything as we have had sex twice since then & its been great, she comin down mine again today, is goin good!
Excellent!!!
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quote:Originally posted by ThisisMe373: yeh it must have been the nerves more than anything as we have had sex twice since then & its been great, she comin down mine again today, is goin good!
Awesome dude. You're cured! No worries from now on.
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I never had that problem, but I agree that if you are having some wood problems, your fetish may be very pronounced. I would recommend a couple of ideas depending on what you wish to do. If you want to indulge your fetish, just let the girl know and see how it goes. The other is to get some counseling and see what can be done to get your mind off feet alone.
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Glad that have finally found your groove. Nerves - "performance anxiety" - can be a big obstacle the first time out. We aren't always even aware that this concern is in play. However, if this occurs again and again, I would take take elgordode62's advice to seek counseling. Remember that a fetish is defined as the need of an object without which the sexual act cannot be completed (yes, the definition is more involved but I'm trying to be brief). Congrats on getting rid of the dead weight that was keeping you so down.
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Fetishes aren't a gay/straight issue. You'll find them in any sexual orientation. The counseling I would suggest would be to change, perhaps, to expand the focus of the passion involved.
Shouldn't have volunteered this at this time. Should have found a bed.
Will add to this thread later, if it's important.
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