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I'm loving this post, do you know where can I find the books for free? I dont own a credit card now, so I cant buy things over the internet. I dont really have many problems picking up girls, but I'd sure like to become an expert hahaha My problem seriously is that I find myself too many times within the friend circle and you all know its pretty hard from there, I've missed many opportunities of finding a nice girl because of this. Even if female friends sometimes do let me play with their feet a little bit, it is pretty rare. I'd like to get it more often
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The fact that people have reacted badly to your introversion, DeadGoon, and that it made people feel uncomfortable kind of tells me that you're probably not comfortable with yourself in those situations. That, in turn, makes other people uncomfortable being there with you.
I'm thinking you first have to come to grips with who you are as a person and be fine with that. Second of all, it shouldn't, and doesn't, matter what anyone else thinks about who you are. Speaking for myself, I'm more of an introverted person and the way I've dealt with it is to push the envelop by making some conversation in a situation that maybe, under normal circumstances, I wouldn't normally make conversation, just as an example. Like anything you do that's out of your element, it feels a little weird at first but it does get easier the more you do it. The more confidence you feel, the more comfortable you are with yourself. Even if you are introverted, you can still come across as confident by being comfortable with who you are.
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