quote:Originally posted by thosetoes: he's probably one of those guys that has a foot fetish, but doesn't call it that. There are plenty of people who refuse to be labeled as a foot fetishist. Simply more of a foot lover
I'm one of those guys. When I say I have a foot fetish I feel like i'm exaggerating. I like feet and they turn me on. But so do many other parts of the female body. I feel my affinity for female feet is much stronger than the average guy, but far weaker than a large majority of the guys here. So it's all relative. Alot like women that say they have a shoe fetish. They actually don't, but they like shoes. If they couldn't be satisfied sexually without her stilletos and it was affecting her everyday life and relationships adversly then i'd say she has a fetish. So i'm the same way
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Haha I said the same thing to my girlfriend.. Oh no, " I like YOUR feet" , I was just trying to make her feel special and not a "weird" foot fetishist. I don't think there is a problem. Posts: 213 | Registered: Feb 2005
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Is "jollies" really an English thing? I am from Brooklyn, NY and I have used that since I was a kid.
Oh, yeah, welcome Laura! Sounds like he is from a more conservative background, or his parents were less open about sex. My dad, and brother both have foot fetishes but would deny it if asked straight away. I think the reason for this is that the availability of the stimulus is so abundant, that they can't handle it and they shut it down. Just a stoner thought.
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Laura, I read your post. Here is how I see it:
The word "Fetish" is a very broad word. A "Fetish", by strict definition, is really when a person cannot achieve sexual arousal, without having contact with whatever the "fetish" is. Fot example, a foot "fetish" by definition, would be if a person could not achieve sexual arousal, without being in contact with feet. For this reason, I usually like to refer to my enjoyment of female feet as an "interest" or "strong preference". I can achieve arousal without being in contact with female feet. That having been said, if I met a girl who said "You can never, ever do anything to my feet", I couldnt be happy with that person. I do need feet as the greater part of a sexual experience, but, dont need to be in contact with them to achieve sexual excitement. I hope what I said makes sense.
My advice, try to subtlely play with him with your feet. Rub them against him during other sex play. Place them in his domain. By doing this, it shows him that his interest is okay to you, and maybe it will be an ice breaker.
I would love to chat with you further about this. I would appreciate if you could send me a private message on forum.
quote:Originally posted by thosetoes: he's probably one of those guys that has a foot fetish, but doesn't call it that. There are plenty of people who refuse to be labeled as a foot fetishist. Simply more of a foot lover
I'm one of those guys. When I say I have a foot fetish I feel like i'm exaggerating.
I'm with you! Besides the fact I just HATE the word 'fetish'. It's been too long associated with perversity and creepiness, which is something LIKING FEET IS NOT!!!
PS Lovely_Laura is super super SUPER PRETTY! I'd say the prettiest girl on the forum You're BF is also lucky to have such a nice open-minded girlfriend who is so accepting Posts: 962 | Registered: Jun 2007
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