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Your wife/girlfriend announces that she's sick and tired of the attention you pay to her feet, and she wants you to stop doing it! How do you react?
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-------------------- "You have very nice feet!" Posts: 3712 | Registered: Apr 2005
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the only logical way to react is to kick her to the curb
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nah, at first, my girl didn't like my fetish. She didn't like the whole footjob deal or me even playing with them...
there was a time where she didn't let me do anything and I kept telling her how much she turned me on with her feet. After awhile, she noticed how much I liked her feet and noticed that I didn't leave her just because she said no.
Now, she gives me fj's all the time. She gave me one yesterday and she was actually into it and made me want to cum on her feet which is somethin I haven't ran into.
Patience is a virtue...all i gotta say
Posts: 126 | Registered: Sep 2005
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for those just casually dating, you can opt to leave if feet is that big a deal. and that is fine
serious daters, that can cause friction that should be addressed and resolved if possible.
married (given my views of marriage).. you've already made the committment to stay with her no matter what.. so.. ride it out! who knows she may change, if not.. you've made the choice already. ride it out!
RPM
p.s. more specifically... if you were getting all the play you wanted, but now she's fed up.. could be a balance issue that isn't working for her and that is her way of adjusting it. if you work through the issues that caused the change, you may find that balance she needs and you may be able to resume the activities (to some degree)... i doubt women out of the random blue will change that drastically just for the sake of annoying you!
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I answered try to negotiate, but if that didn't yield an amicable result, I'm with Mikey P -- she's finished.
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If I was dating someone seriously, looking for a life long partner, and she thought it weird being into feet and didnt want a bar of it, I think that would be the end of her.
But in a relationship and she just had enough, I'd try to get to the bottom of it.
Posts: 461 | Registered: Dec 2002
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Girlfriend == end of the relationship (assuming that I've been pleasuring her and fulfilling her needs)
Wife == tough decision, but I'd probably try to compromise/negotiate.
Thankfully, this hasn't even come close to being an issue in my marriage...
-------------------- When you go home tell them of us and say, for your tomorrow we gave our today. -John Maxwell Edmonds Posts: 1543 | Registered: Nov 2004
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This happens from time to time. The wife will say no more anal or no more footjob etc. It just means we've been doing too much of the same thing over and over. I just switch the bedroom routine to something else for awhile then go back to the freaky stuff after some time has pasted.
-------------------- Every arch has its ups and downs Posts: 8 | Registered: Dec 2008
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I'd try to nogotiate. Wouldn't give up w/o a fight. But she's still getting more and more into my fetish thank goodness. As bsteps mentioned- sometimes it's just too much attention on that one area and she wants a break.
Posts: 9728 | Registered: Feb 2004
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I agree with RPM and bsteps. Usually, when a woman says "no more" to something in a sexual vein, then that means that the guy is concentrating too much on one thing or doing the same thing again and again and it's no longer enjoyable to the woman because it's done too often. Negotiate would probably be the best thing to do or, as suggested, just vary up the routine for awhile and concentrate on something else.
-------------------- "I like feet... A lot!" Posts: 2167 | Registered: Sep 2004
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I would try to negotiate. I would tell her that I can understand if it was too much, and maybe we would cut the foot attention down, or not do it for a short while. However, if she said "No more of my feet, ever". I dont think I could live with that. A wife is supposed to try and accomdate her husband's desires. Blatant refusal to do so, ever, is, to me, a demonstration of not considering her husband's feelings. I dont think I could stay with someone like that long term.
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Hey MitchC, hopefully you would come accross this attribute in her whilst dating, before you committ to a long term relationship.
Posts: 461 | Registered: Dec 2002
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no such thing as a "special" girl, all can easily be replaced
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