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Lot's of good advice here. Mine won't be any better, but here goes. Time is a good healer. She is still with you (a good thing). Slowly start doing other things with her feet. I also see you have some choices regarding your porn...Delete the porn or move it to a secure location, don't download anything you wouldn't want to be seen.
I could keep going but it would be way to long. Good luck and keep us posted! You will be fine.
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Good grief i still don't understand this stigma surrounding feet in 2009. Since i was 18 i have been open about it, i compliment girls on their toes and my girlfriend of 4 years is really into it to ( she loves having her toes sucked) I don't understand why its weird, you like tits and pussy right? well feet are just another aspect of a woman that turn me on too. Just wish people would grow up now and see its not some weird thing to like, its not like we are into asian chicks taking a dump in our mouths?
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I have had a bit of a similar mishap at one point. When I met my now ex, I was not shying off with saying that I am into feet. One of the first things that came out of my mouth when we met. I thought, hell... might as well be honest and see if that takes you anywhere. To my surprise, even tho she didnt like her feet at all, she was more than happy to start taking more care of them and let me indulge in them as well.
After a while, I started going out and asking girls in parks to pose their feet for me. Saving these pics on my pc, hidden and all, she still managed to find all of them (snooping around for a reason as she said). She was NOT happy aty all with it, and asked why and what the point was. Explaining to her that I just got a buzz out of it and that it didnt mean much, we sort of got our differences out of the way, and everything was fine. The only condition being.. I get rid of the pics imediately and start concentrating on her feet indstead. So as hurtful as it was.. all 347 pictures went into the recylce bin and never got to see them again... but at least I had heaps more fun with my ex feet since then.
I guess it shows, just be honest and don't hide yoour true self. If you cannot open up completely while you are with somebody then you will never have the pleasure of indulging in your own little fantasies and games. Good luck with everything in the future mate!
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dude, its time to be a man. she found your porn, she didnt chop your dick off.
-------------------- "Nina, this is my house, you work for me, and I want to suck your toes." -Big Trouble (2002) Posts: 1855 | Registered: Nov 2007
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Just tell her you bought a used hard disk drive when your old one died and this stuff just happened to be on it.
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Stop with they lying. Men tell the truth and deal with the consequences. But still everyone will respect you. When I find out someone lied to me I tend not to believe anything they say and make my own assumptions. Very bad. Fix it by telling her the truth. Tell her how she can be involved in your foot fetish. If she won't get involved it will hurt. But there is always another woman that will indulge you.
GQguy
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i feel for you dude, very embarassing. the majority of women think it is weird whether we like it or not.
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My ex had known for quite some time I had a FF. She saw that I had this (and several other FF sites) bookmarked and didn't say a word...all she did was ask me to come for lunch one day, where she then proceeded to give a FJ that left me spinning.
When I got up, there was a note waiting for me that basically told me she had been longing for that moment and that I didn't need a website to get off to when all I had to do was ask.
Problem solved. We broke up earlier this year, but she gave me one last FJ for old times sake.
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quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: You should have admitted it in the first place. It's better to"come out of the closet." If she thinks it's too weird for her, then move on.
please never compare FF to "coming out of the closet" ever again. I honestly think this should be a rule on this site.
So- homophobia is just fine, but we should still expect people to openly accept our fetishes? What a brilliant arguement.
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quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: You should have admitted it in the first place. It's better to"come out of the closet." If she thinks it's too weird for her, then move on.
please never compare FF to "coming out of the closet" ever again. I honestly think this should be a rule on this site.
So- homophobia is just fine, but we should still expect people to openly accept our fetishes? What a brilliant arguement.
I thought the same thing..BUT to be fair to him, and to give the benefit of the doubt, he hasn't directly said he's against gays, just that he hates that phrase...people hate phrases. It happens.
If I say "chill" to my girlfriend, she gets somewhat irate for example. haha
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And Jerry-Laa...think of it this way: it means you didn't have to tell her, she just found out. It's done and out in the ether now. It made her know as opposed to building up the courage to bring it up
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I don't understand why its weird, you like tits and pussy right? well feet are just another aspect of a woman that turn me on too. Just wish people would grow up now and see its not some weird thing to like, its not like we are into asian chicks taking a dump in our mouths?
