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My girlfriend is notorious for going through my stuff, she found out a few weeks ago from reading my emails that i have emailed a few women on craigslist adds that advertised foot sessions. She didn't tell me until today, now I have never done this while I was with her..but she managed to go through emails from before i met her and she just was shocked that i actually paid for it. My question is to any females out there, what would you think if you were in her shoes and found out your bf used to pay for a foot fetish session?
She actually seems to take it ok, she actually emailed me some pictures of her feet and wrote an advertisement, but today when she told me I was upset that she went through my emails and she then got all upset at me and said she thought it was disgusting that I did that stuff. Yes I did pay for it before and i'm not proud of it but I never have done it since I met her and have never even thought about it. She pretty much knows everything there is to know about me now.
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nothin wrong with payin for it mate. some guys just have to do it and oddly enough it often results in those men who are less apt with women actually getting better feet than the guys who just sit around and wack it to the idea of getting feet LOL
doesn't matter how ya gett'em imo, just as long as you get to LSSF the way you like best, Hee Hee
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dude, your hand is much cheaper. but wow, she looked through your e-mails? honestly, ive got to tell you, that it sounds like she has some serious trust issues, and i dont think that she was looking for that. I would get to the bottom of this, b/c you shouldnt have anyone snooping through your personal shit, it doesn't matter who it is.
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I'm amazed--reading this story is deja vu: I practically lived what he just said!
Well, my story was that yes, I had "paid for it" but not deliberately, actually. I ended up giving a ride to two attractive girls--it turned out they were sisters 19 and 21. Well, it also turned out they were...not in the best circumstances.
Cute fuckin' feet like you wouldn't believe, and really sweet personalities as well. Well, they were grateful for the 20 mile ride, which took me out of my way, so I got up my courage and told them that they could consider me repaid if they'd let me take pictures of their feet. They were happy to oblige. One thing led to another and I ended up "helping them out" with some cash, and that got me a couple more sessions with their feet (and nothing else, which is how I wanted it).
Along came my girlfriend about a year later. She eventually turned out to be an insecure and jealous type, and did some snooping and found pictures on my computer, of these girls and some other exes. Our relationship hobbled along for a while, with trust issues abounding (on both sides). She snooped and then when confronted would apologize. I never really did get full-on angry about the snooping, because I felt a bit guilty that I did not find myself capable of giving her all of myself emotionally. I never did cheat on her, or even try to, but because I had those pictures she found (and was reluctant to purge them from my collection and my life) she never developed the trust in me that I actually did warrant. Of course, some time later, we did split.
It's very important to make a girl feel (know) that she is the only one for you. If you're going to keep feet pictures and/or porn, unless you know ahead of time that she's really open to that or into it, you'd best keep it VERY well-hidden, and never mention it. This way, if/when you break up, you'll still have it.
By the way, my ex was perfectly ok with my foot fetish and while she didn't go crazy for having her toes sucked, would often let me, and she reallllly liked foot massages. I also got to suck her feet while we fucked, and she was a bit of a demon in that whole department...
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dude....i had a previous girlfriend who went thru my emails, broke into my facebook account, etc (which she never found anything anyhow) and i dropped her ass like a sack of potatoes...you should not have to deal with a psychotic girl!
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Wow, this is disturbing. I have been offering private foot worship sessions to my fans for a few years now. Most of the guys who see me are married or have girlfriends. Yet not one of them has ever had a problem like this with their significant other...and I know this because 95% of the guys I see end up being "regulars".
quote:Originally posted by Andy-Laa: If it was before her, you did nothing wrong. She did though.
Andy, is this addressed to me? If so, why? I don't know who you are (at least not from your forum name here) and you have not posted anything above, yet you seem to be "replying" to me, which is confusing. My post was in direct response to the original poster, JerryJones.
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Janet I don't think he is addressing that to you hon, you are the best and you are revered around here and so is Andy Laa, he is Athena's man. I think he was just saying that Jerry's girl is wrong for judging him for something he did before her and she was also wrong for snooping.
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quote:Originally posted by sgadd27: Janet I don't think he is addressing that to you hon, you are the best and you are revered around here and so is Andy Laa, he is Athena's man. I think he was just saying that Jerry's girl is wrong for judging him for something he did before her and she was also wrong for snooping.
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