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Yes i am attracted to her she is definately attractive and good looking, another problem though now and its a strange one, i was rubbing her bare feet last nice saying they are nice and soft and her feet starting gettin kinda sweaty and she got really embaressed moved them away i noticed everytime im rubbing them she gets sweaty easily same with her hands and she always moves them away like she thinks i'll be grossed out.
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yeah i guess that only normal considering she might just assume you are gonna get grossed out by them and doesnt realise that actually they turn you on! which she will find out sooner or later..
i would say this, you are attracted to her so you CAN have sex with her and enjoy it and perform well. maybe you've just got a mental block and youre nervous, but when it comes to it you'll love it. i'd say try it if you can, and if you dont enjoy it to start with then fake it! and then once this has happened you should find including feet into sex life a lot easier.
i can see this is hard for you and i understand, but nothing is impossible my friend. stay positive and good luck!
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do you guys get an erection from a girl just taking her knickers off or her top because i don't but if she rubbed her feet in my face id be hard instantly, see what im saying, maybe i have the true fetish like i need feet to get proper hard, like feeling her ass legs kissin gets me kind of aroused but not proper hard.
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IF MY WIFE HAS HER FEET OUT (WHICH IS ABOUT 75% OF THE TIME...I'M HARD AS ALIEN MATHEMATICS...
The keys is to...BE WHO YOU ARE BUT EASE HER INTO THE FOOT THING...Gradually getting more into FOOT KINK AS THINGS PROGRESS...If you just whipped her feet out start eating them like a starved maniac or jacking off and acting like a perv...IT WILL PROBABLY THROW HER OFF!..Make sure that she know that you like her feet and that you like to rub them and stuff but DON'T GO STRAIGHT IN FOOT A FOOTJOB OR WORSHIP...
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when i was a bit younger and hadnt really experienced great sex, i didnt get aroused by girls as a wholes as much as i did for feet. now after having more and more sex and being with a few girls who im really attracted to and experienced awesome sex, i've grown to love all kinds of things more and more. for example i love eating pussy! initially i felt uncomfortable with it, but much like the smell and taste of feet i feel similar about eating pussy when im in the mood.
BUT it is different, and this is what my ex couldnt understand. for me feet are different to sex, but then all kinds of things are different and now i'd say its 50/50 i like feet as much as other stuff.
what im trying to say is i didnt always feel that way though and its just come with time that my tastes have changed and developed and im sure yours will too. i think your best bet is to follow the advice of detroit and others. stay true to yourself but be cool at the same time, and dont beat yourself up for not being as turned on my the rest of her as you'd like to be.
it could also be that your mind is subconciously blocking out the rest of her sexually because you feel deprived of feet? its just an idea, but i have felt like this in the past myself. i got obssessed with feet once, and then once my girlfriend denied me her feet thats all i wanted for a while, or atleast the urge became stronger. now my urge has died down a little. anyway, who cares. as long as you and your partner are happy.
but think of it this way, the more you satisfy her the more likely you are to get feet!
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"it could also be that your mind is subconciously blocking out the rest of her sexually because you feel deprived of feet? its just an idea, but i have felt like this in the past myself. i got obssessed with feet once, and then once my girlfriend denied me her feet thats all i wanted for a while, or atleast the urge became stronger. now my urge has died down a little. anyway, who cares. as long as you and your partner are happy."
I think thats a key part i feel deprived of the feet im obsessed with them lol the BIG problem is as i said before she has this thing where her feet get really sweaty i have hinted and hinted about rubbing her feet i was even joking about sucking her toes and she dont let me near them? its sucks as she's a lovely girl and if i just wanted pussy there would be no problem here!!! Im about 90% certain she will not be cool with my fetish she will see it as weird and disgusting, i can tell from her reactions about feet in general.
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Focus on getting her over her insecurities. Then take the long path to her feet and find out what HER turn-ons are.
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quote:Originally posted by soleenjoyment: Focus on getting her over her insecurities. Then take the long path to her feet and find out what HER turn-ons are.
"Brevity is the soul of wit". Sound advice, too.
I think another point here is that you continue to focus on yourself and your worries. If you paid more attention to her, you would think of your own concerns less.
As regards the sweaty feet & hands, this is an indicator that she is nervous and uncomfortable. That she is doing this means she's working hard (at least in her perception) to accommodate you.
Though you may not think so, you are rushing things; you're trying to skip past the meat, potatoes, and the Lima Beans just to get at the pie. If you want to have dessert, you'd darn well better eat the meal.
In other words, slow down and remember that the center of the matter is not YOU.
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quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: In other words, slow down and remember that the center of the matter is not YOU.
Well said.
It seems like guys are a little too concerned with getting theirs and not concerned enough with the other party, since they're the ones receiving and whatnot.
I've obviously not been a woman with hot feet (not in this life, at least), so I don't know what it's like...but I imagine there's some kind of adjustment period involved, especially if the lady in question has never dealt with this particular peccadillo previously. Imagine yourself in her shoes, and maybe you'll gain some insight on her feelings.
And if she's really sweating that much, make her more comfortable. Or at least attempt to.
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1/ let the foot fetish thingy at the door and focus on your relationship with her. Chances are you guys will hit off and have a great time together. However this also means frustration and in the end might jeopardize a "perfect" relationship.
2/ Tell her right away. Either she accepts it or she can leave. Sure it's not a subtle approach but if she understand your fetish then you're in for a great time with her with no frustrations whatsoever.
Personally I ALWAYS go with option 2 and I had maybe 2 negative answers in my whole life. I prefer to make things straight from the start.
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I have no real advice to offer you, other than what's already been said. But if it's any consolation you're not alone. I have exactly the same predicament, and I'm sure there are a whole mess of other lurkers watching this who have too
Also, if you still worry about feeling like a creep, just remember that there are FAR CRAZIER fetishes out there. The 'porn' I accidentally discovered on one of my friends computers the once still gives me nightmares.
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Please keep her, the whole person as the focus, and put her at ease, with a little wine and lots of compliments. The more comfortable she is, and gets, the more comfortable you will be. Then slowly make out with her. Talk to her, tell her how much she turns you on, how badly you want to love her, and make love to her. Undress her slowly, kissing each part of her that you un-clothe. Let her undress you. Lay her down gently. Massage her body with your hands, touch her everywhere, let her touch you. Work your way down her body. Go slow. As you get to her feet, move your body between her legs. As you enter her, her legs are up and around you, lift them, or one of them to your face. You now have every reason to be hard, excited and ready to f her brains out. Enter her as you kiss and smell her foot. Tell her she is so beautiful, you love all of her, and her feet turn you on too! Make them part of the experience, not the whole experience! You both are now getting what you want. By making love and entering her as you play, kiss and smell her feet, you are allowing her to associate her feet with your pleasure, and her pleasure. Make sure she knows you love her first, and put her at ease that her feet turn you on too! A WIN-WIN situation! You won't need to be scared, or feel un-confident, once her sexy foot or feet is in your face! That is like VIAGRA and CIALIS put together! Don't be affraid to incorporate her feet in your love making! Make them a part of the whole over-all sexy hot encounter! Open and honest communication, before and after is vital too! GOOD LUCK!
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ROYALS that would be great only problem is as im so nervous about not getting hard without the feet and obsessing about them too much im worried i won't be hard enough to "enter" her unless the feet are involved, as i have said in an earlier post i think part of the problem is anxiety im worried the sex will be rubbish, also she is not confident about her feet and its not just her being nervous she gets sweaty hands like really easily in no awkward situations same with her feet then she moves them away like she's embaressed (which is understandable) but if i started kissing her feet during sex she'll move them away instantly!
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My biggest point was for the two of you to simply relax before you get to that point. You are too nervous about performing, and performing without her feet, and she is nervous about her feet being sweaty, smelly and undesireable. Put on soft music, have some wine, and relax. Enjoy each other. Talk to each other. If you make sure to tell her how pretty she is, how much you love her, how much you enjoy her, particularly her sweaty hands and feet! Make sure she knows you are fine with them, and in fact turned on by them! She doesn't have to worry! Tell her, she may think it is strange, but her hands and feet really excite you! They turn you on. Do lots of touching and massaging all over her body, relax her first, she then won't pull anything away because you will be giving her pleasure. Slowly bring her foot to your face, and tell her how much it turns you on! You then will be hard when you enter her! IT IS OK TO LIKE FEET, IT IS OK FOR THEM TO TURN YOU ON! Go with it! Don't BE SO FEARFUL! SEX IS BEAUTIFUL! TIME, AND EXPERIENCE make it easier and better. Each time you learn something new, from movement, timing, positioning, and most of all communication! TALK THESE FEARS OUT, and go PLEASURE each other! We have ALL been there at one time, it takes caring, loving, going slow, and be in the moment, and the fears will subside!
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