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Or better yet, lose your girl to someone who will...Mr Macho...lol
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quote:Originally posted by National: I think it's weird. In general this is not an act I would encourage foot fetishists to take on. Leave the toenail painting up to the pros at the nail salon. I read Jerry Jone's post about half way through before I said to myself that that was gay. After that I didn't want to read the rest of it. Painting her toenails seems cute, but it isn't. Would you offer to brush her hair for her or put on her make-up on a daily basis?
If a guy (especially one who doesn't have a foot fetish) overhears a conversation where a woman tells her friends that her boyfriend did her toe- and fingernails, I would think that it'll sound weird to him.
I agree with you, man. Totally agree.
This whole thing sounds a bit tutti frutti to me. Just from the fact that the question was asked to begin with should suggest that something about it is not quite right. Painting her fingernails every now and then sounds quite feminine. So why would painting toenails be any less feminine? You cannot paint her toenails and make it look as hot as she would do it or anyone from a salon would do it.
Painting someone else's toenails is something girls do with each other when they're gossiping about who's cock they want to suck next. If a dominatrix demands a slave to paint her toenails, who looks like a bigger bitch? Well, anything a dom demands her slave to do makes him more fragile than she is but painting the toenails is quite comical.
I'll tell you what, Mr. Dallas Cowboy. Instead of asking the people in here, why don't you tell your male buddies and co-workers exactly what you told us and see what THEY tell you. I'll bet that an overwhelming majority will side with me.
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If you have any artistic value, DO NOT ever paint your girls toes. The wife and I went to Wal Mart to get her some Lee-press on fingernails earlier tonight. And she kinda slyly mentioned to me about how good I can draw; then she threw up in my face that shes buying designer fingernails, that I should draw pictures on her tonails to match! I worked 12 hours today, and was like, "O hell no"!
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: It's funny. I feel that women complain more now about there not being any "real men" around than they did in my parents age. Most women I date want a guy similar to their fathers. Many might disagree. But the truth is while male cheerleaders don't have the same stigma they used to, the macho quarterback still gets the girl.
Ok. Back to your original question. I don't think it's manly. It's extremely feminine actually and submissive. But then again your chic might like it. It can be cool in small doses balanced by masculine abilities traits i.e. She's sad and in order to cheer her up you paint her toes(masculine trait is the ability to control the emotional state of others) or (Just changed your engine oil only to paint her toes later). Must be highly secure in your masculinty both real and percieved.
It's a tough line. Women try very hard to feminize men...in my opinion. The men with the most success are the ones that are able to resist. My mom used to get us to help her paint her finger nails as young boys. That's something I did as a kid to be a good boy and not to upset my mom. I'm grown now and know that women aren't sexually attracted to good boys.
If I were a single father i'd paint my daughter's nails in a heartbeat.
I'd rather pay for my girl's pedicure instead and check them out when she was done.
GQguy
You pretty much nailed it. A woman might want a Man to do that for her... but? It's the guys that resist that have all the attention.
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I do it all the time, mainly because it's an activity we both enjoy. I get to spend some time around her feet and she gets to feel pretty and get all her attention she wants.
I don't really think it's feminine (not that that is a real problem, in a lot of ways I AM feminine), because I still do all the man stuff around the house, work a backbreaking job to provide a great life for the both of us, and I can be relied upon to be the "big strong boyfriend" that she wants.
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I enjoy things to be the way I like em. I'd rather give a quality pedicure to my girl at home and pay the attention I prefer to her peds as apposed to some person who just gets paid to handle feet and hands at a salon all day. Sure they can pull off nice nail art but they rarely buff the feet smooth as I prefer them. If I bought a car I liked, I'd pain it too. I don't find it emasculating at all.
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Yeah, I'm not seeing the problem, either. If you're comfortable with your masculinity, then painting your gf/wife's toes shouldn't be that much of an issue. It's not like one act will send you down a slippery slope.
Then again, this site does seem to have a lot of macho men on it.
quote:Would you offer to brush her hair for her or put on her make-up on a daily basis?
if that was my fetish... hell yeah i would. are you guys forgetting that he is painting her toes and he's got a foot fetish? he's doing it cause he gets turned on by her feet and he's making sure they look good and he have (kinky) heterosexual sex with her. he's not being forced into it at all. it seems to me any guy who is so concerned about being perceived as feminine isnt comfortable in his own masculinity or has a skewed view of what it is to be masculine. having graduated from a fine arts college, i end up making many aesthetic decisions for my family including picking out colors for rooms and outfits. i've also taken care of my kids including giving them baths and doing diaper duty when they were that young. for the last year or so my responsibilities have also included cooking, cleaning, and doing the laundry because of my wife's back issues. but when i am not doing that, i could be mowing the lawn, refinishing our basement, and watching MMA. seems to me, you can do anything and still be a man. there's no reason to prove anything to anyone.
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At last...some balance...lol...I don't look at it(polishing toes) as anything sexual... I'm not sexually turned on by polishing her toes...If she asks for help...I give it to her...
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quote:Originally posted by JerryJones: I'm in love with my gf toes, especially when she does them with a french pedicure. Recently, just to encourage her to keep them like that, i offered to try and do them for her since shes been low on money lately.
I like to paint in general weather it be a house, or whatever. I got a kit and actually did her toes. I have to say, I did a pretty good job, her toes look damn sexy. I had sex with her feet that night and came on them after she was giving me a FJ.
Anyone think it's weird that I do this?
I would find it clinically worrisome if you derived the same pleasure painting a house that you experience while giving your girlfriends beautiful toes a pedicure. As for your second concern, weird is the new wonderful. Just remember to give her a treat fitting the treat she gave you.
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I think that I've done it twice...maybe 3 times at the most...It's not like its my favorite thing ...I found it very intresting that SOOOOOO many guys were like NOOOO WAY...Great topic too JerryJones...
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Not weird at all, I say. If you like it, and she likes it, go for it, and keep at it. The simple truth is who-the-hell-cares if other people think it's 'weird' or 'femmy' whatever else. At the end of the day, you and your girl are having a good time, and there's apparently a happy ending involved! There's a heck of a lot more 'weird' stuff going on out there. You can always find something weirder. No regrets about who you are and what you like to do. To thine own self, be true. ...
Oh, and if we could get some pics of the FJ, that'd be delightful.
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