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Niiiice! Just be confident and don't let their feet make you nervous. Good social skills are a must when it comes to landing female strangers. One of the greatest guys to pickup the feet of hot strangers is CBF. Download some of his videos from his website and listen to the techniques he uses on the fly. It is golden!
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1. Be honest 2. Using a cell phone looks a little creepy..if u have a real camera use it, and look like you do more than just walk the streets for feet( even though ita exactly what we are doing lol) 3. location- park or boardwalk is usually good because people go there for leisure time..@ the mall or starbucks typically girls are there for a purpose and/or have limited time 4. usually i have a few examples from previous encounters..gives them a little reassurance and makes it alot less creepy
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I do have a DSLR but I would not bring it to Starbucks with me lol. I was thinking of meeting them, giving them my business card and getting touch with them at some other point for a shoot. If they are wearing shoes, how can I get them to take off their shoes to show me their feet? also, how do I propose the photoshoot to them? Just trying to put it creatively. I can pick up girls no problem, it's just trying to pick them up specifically for photoshoots
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If you're trying to schedule appointments for later, then it's no different than making a date.
You'll have to give them a reason to want to see you again. Typically things like business cards and money are not enough.
You're going to need to demonstrate value in the form of being socially engaging in order to really capture their imagination.
The best things to say would be those that are genuinely interesting, serve as a vehicle to display your personality, and as a springboard into other topics.
You already know that confidence, body language, and especially tone of voice are critical factors to keep in mind. You must also approach within 3 seconds of her noticing your presence.
Update us with some photos if you have any success.
Below are some example videos and starbucks photos in the second thread.
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: If you're trying to schedule appointments for later, then it's no different than making a date.
You'll have to give them a reason to want to see you again. Typically things like business cards and money are not enough.
You're going to need to demonstrate value in the form of being socially engaging in order to really capture their imagination.
The best things to say would be those that are genuinely interesting, serve as a vehicle to display your personality, and as a springboard into other topics.
You already know that confidence, body language, and especially tone of voice are critical factors to keep in mind. You must also approach within 3 seconds of her noticing your presence.
Update us with some photos if you have any success.
Below are some example videos and starbucks photos in the second thread.
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: If you're trying to schedule appointments for later, then it's no different than making a date.
You'll have to give them a reason to want to see you again. Typically things like business cards and money are not enough.
You're going to need to demonstrate value in the form of being socially engaging in order to really capture their imagination.
The best things to say would be those that are genuinely interesting, serve as a vehicle to display your personality, and as a springboard into other topics.
You already know that confidence, body language, and especially tone of voice are critical factors to keep in mind. You must also approach within 3 seconds of her noticing your presence.
Update us with some photos if you have any success.
Below are some example videos and starbucks photos in the second thread.
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GGN's post couldn't have been any more accurate in my opinion.
Even though I'm not a photographer, I don't believe approaching a random girl for pictures of her feet would be any different than approaching her in general and trying to come away with her number. There's no separate special formula for either, no magical words or phrases that need to be said or spoken that are fail proof in every situation.
What I've found out in my experience through observation and trial and error, is that the most important things to be cognizant of are your body language, and that your words are more just a way to display your personality. More often than not, females aren't really focused on the details of what you're saying. They tend to be more focused on the tone of your voice and how you look while saying what you're saying. A fun, energetic voice (without being overly animated or over zealous) giving her the option to sit down to model her feet for fun I imagine will probably have more success than the voice asking for her permission (which gives her the option of verbally telling you "No, thanks." as you wait for her answer) or offering her money.
Lead the interaction and give the perception that no matter the result or the outcome, you're going to be fine with that. To paraphrase National because it couldn't be more true, when approaching someone, the only thing that is certain, is the uncertainty.
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It's often heard that people will say, "just be yourself", when it comes to meeting women.
As if one should just continue doing what they've always done, and things will somehow work out, despite probably not having worked out optimally in the past.
That may work in some instances, but chances are that is not ones true self.
A person's best authentic self is one that is uninhibited by layers of conditioned patterns and insecurities, fully present in the moment.
quote:Originally posted by goodguyneighbor: A person's best authentic self is one that is uninhibited by layers of conditioned patterns and insecurities
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It's true. Common advice that one hears often when it comes to meeting women, or just meeting new people in general for that matter, is to "Just be yourself, and if they don't like you, then it's their loss."
I can understand the point one is trying to make with the part of it being someone else's loss if they reject you, but I do think it's also a little too aggressive and expresses acrimony. Everyone desires approval from others in some capacity, and if "being yourself" has done nothing but presented you with an undesired outcome time and time again, it should be evident that a change has to be made somewhere.
Usually it's nothing too drastic in the sense that you need to change your beliefs, fundamentals, the foundation of you are, etc. Simply improving little things such as your gait, speech and posture, will go a long way in themselves in how others perceive you before even actually engaging you in conversation.
As was mentioned, a person's best self is one that is uninhibited by condtioned patters and insecurities. Although often times in order to overcome these insecurities, we have to first admit that we are indeed insecure to begin with, which a lot of people find difficult to do.
As also previously stated, don't just be yourself; be your best self. Don't necessarily have the bitter mentality that it's someone else's loss if they don't accept you; simply be indifferent about it. If you are simply unfazed by other people's reactions, ideas, trivialities, etc., you are much more attractive than the person who puts too much emphasis on and gets too attached to what the uncertain outcome of an exchange will be.
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