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I would suggest maybe pretending to fall asleep in your bedroom with the door open,or on the couch.Leave your feet very visible to the little fella and if he does have that strong of a fetish he will try to get closer.I would guess he would have to try to catch a smell or take a picture.Catch him in the act,but be easy.This way you are not accusing him of something.I think it would be good for the kid, let him know softly that this kind of thing violates people and is socially noy accepted.It will also embarriss the shit out of him.But if the little bastard posts pics of your piggies,you know we are going to appreciate his work.
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I like Andy Laa's suggestion. The "where are my shoes" bit would have scared me at his age. If he persist, then talk to him one on one. Let him know that his urges are normal but remind him that one must not act on all urges.
I remember being 12 and "borrowing" my mothers victoria secret catalogues. I was caught and pretty embarrased. But it's all part of growing up. I expect the same sort of thing when my son is a preteen-teen.
Good luck!
GQ
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quote:Originally posted by Andy-Laa: She's real bruhs...
And you know this how?
I'm not trying to be confrontational. Really, I'm not. I love the teenager/hot mom thing more than you'll ever know, having dropped enough jizz into my best friend's mom's heels and stockings when I was a teen to fill a 55-gallon barrel. But this post just doesn't ring true.
Too many details, too many small pieces of information ("... changing from skirt and heels to shorts and flip flops ...") seemingly designed to pique the interest of horny foot-loving guys (yes, just like me). The writing doesn't read like someone who's prepared to ask a question ... it reads like an essay with a straw-man payoff at the end. It's a little on the breathless side ("... probably the 20th time I've started to write this post ..."), and it reads like a Penthouse Forum letter ("I’m a 38 year old wife and mother. I have a wonderful husband and a super 12 year old son."). And, without going into details about what I do for a living and why I am able to come to this educated conclusion, it reads like a man wrote it.
I acknowledge I could be wrong. But I don't think so.
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I don't really read it like that, but...again I ask why would she do that?
I've just had an embarrassingly long past of seeing fake profiles on Facebook in particular (not like "Come meet me at_______" or anything, just general troll accounts/people trying to pass themselves off as other people...)
I may be chatting myself up a bit here, but I've managed to get a good understanding of what a fake person/post is and I'd be willing to vouch for the validity of this one....
There's no reason NOT to post advice here anyway...that's what Wu's is all about...
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from my vantage point of view..... in the real world, i've had a few gal pals ask me for advice on similar situations. a guy in their life has a foot fetish. they find out about it by piecing together little details.. and now they're curious as all heck to know what's the deal.
let's say for arguement sake this was a fake, it does speak to and voice concerns that folks have had in real life!
flip the scrip around. let's say she's really who she says she is.. and this is the way to treat her?
it's the web, i don't sink a lot of time trying to figure what gender is behind everything i read.
i responded to it at face value. in the event it was a guy having his rocks stroked at all the advice, this hurts me none either.
off to the pic section.. find a few of my fav's to look at
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dunno, this doesnt come off as fake to me either. there isnt any pay off for it. it does sound to me like a mom who is utterly baffled as to what to do.. but i also wouldnt bet on its validity either. the net is an odd place.
quote: I will let you massage my feet for ten minutes, when you are done, you are not to ever touch my shoes again! Do we have a deal? This is JUST between you and I, nobody else is to know, OK? Not EVEN my son! UNDERSTAND?
worst. advice. ever. why would you encourage the kid to be sneaky as well as risk the consequences if her son and hubby finds out?
i am between the scare tactic and just trying to talk to him. or you could do the in between one that was used on me when i was sneaking into my parents room to peruse their playboy stash. leave a note saying, 'I know what you are doing and I do not appreciate it.' you could also add an ending about coming to talk to you about it although i doubt he'd take you up on it.
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: dunno, this doesnt come off as fake to me either. there isnt any pay off for it. it does sound to me like a mom who is utterly baffled as to what to do.. but i also wouldnt bet on its validity either. the net is an odd place.
C'mon, think about it. You're a responsible mom, looking for information about your son's friend's apparent foot fetish and what your response should be. It's a baffling topic to you, maybe a little disturbing even, and you're eager to learn more. You want advice about how to proceed. So where are you, a 38-year-old mom with a great husband and a super 12-year-old son, going to seek reliable information about this subject? Any one of the dozens of online sources of medical/psychological information about sexuality and its variations? Or a website devoted to hot stories, hot girls and hot photos?
The pieces do not add up.
Listen, I admit that it seems like I'm becoming the resident grump around here -- a la the story about a birthday party featuring 10 girls and a group of knowing friends, anyone? -- and I'm probably not winning any fans right now. That's not the role I'm trying to take on here, but it seems like a lot of otherwise-sharp people are being played a bit during recent weeks.
Think about the 38-year-old women (or moms) you know, and decide for yourself what choice they'd make in a similar situation. If you come to the conclusion that they'd come here for information, please introduce them to me, because they'd probably be a lot of fun to play with.
But feel free to decide for yourself whether this is on the level or not.
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DL, I am one of the skepticals. But not saying that this person should be condemned for what they are posting. Like DL said, a good story that I enjoyed. I thank her for the post and if she is real, I hope she does find the solution to this delicate situation. You are right, there are nothing to gain and we don't have to be on a look out for fraud, there is no harms done if she is not real or at least the situation is not real. Sorry you had to defned this postion by youself, but I am exactly wheee you are on this one.
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quote:Originally posted by redd: DL, I am one of the skepticals. But not saying that this person should be condemned for what they are posting. Like DL said, a good story that I enjoyed. I thank her for the post and if she is real, I hope she does find the solution to this delicate situation. You are right, there are nothing to gain and we don't have to be on a look out for fraud, there is no harms done if she is not real or at least the situation is not real. Sorry you had to defned this postion by youself, but I am exactly wheee you are on this one.
Thanks. I guess I'm just in a feisty mood. It does seem to me, though, that our nice little village has been visited a lot recently by phonies, so maybe I'm simply trying to stand at the gates.
Likewise, as mentioned earlier, if the original poster is genuine, I welcome her aboard and hope she finds the useful information she needs here.
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There is no real way to determine if this poster is on the level or not. We don't have to be the FBI or CIA here. What's the difference really? It IS a question that is relevant. Somebody could use good advice on this topic! Someone could benefit. Now, I was also told my advice was the worst ever, but this individual thought a scare tactic on a 12 year old boy was better! I suggested a FOOT MASSAGE, not anything crazy here! The idea of keeping it secret was to protect him and his feelings, which haven't reached puberty yet. IT was not to cause further harm. In the alternative solutions, the husband and the friend would find out ANYWAY! SO WHAT IS THE HARM, IF THEY FOUND OUT about the foot massage in my scenario. He could easily explain it away, saying her feet hurt I thought I was being nice offering a massage, that's all! THE SCARE TACTIC, and his motivation and fetish are laid out for everyone to ridicule!!!! WHOSE ADVICE IS THE WORST EVER? Sometimes LESS is BEST, and some things can be kept private between two individuals. Just like there is a time and place for WHITE LIES, there is a time and place for keeping things on the DOWN LOW!
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(And you honestly have nothing to worry about posting on forums like these - some have really mean guys on them, but this one is full of decent, upstanding people...plus you're totally anonymous )Wow thanks Andy... ...Now then should'nt it be a matter of RESPECT????I know exactly where this young boy is coming from I've had a love for female feet (and I think more than 90% of us in here)since I can remember.BUT even when I came into my own sexually I always knew there were limits.I've of course checked out friends mothers feet but never stolen from them or took pictures without them knowing..I think you should confront him and maybe he will be embarrassed but I think theres a good chance he wont steal from anyone again..
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quote:Originally posted by nusuth: dunno, this doesnt come off as fake to me either. there isnt any pay off for it. it does sound to me like a mom who is utterly baffled as to what to do.. but i also wouldnt bet on its validity either. the net is an odd place.
C'mon, think about it. You're a responsible mom, looking for information about your son's friend's apparent foot fetish and what your response should be. It's a baffling topic to you, maybe a little disturbing even, and you're eager to learn more. You want advice about how to proceed. So where are you, a 38-year-old mom with a great husband and a super 12-year-old son, going to seek reliable information about this subject? Any one of the dozens of online sources of medical/psychological information about sexuality and its variations? Or a website devoted to hot stories, hot girls and hot photos?
The pieces do not add up.
Listen, I admit that it seems like I'm becoming the resident grump around here -- a la the story about a birthday party featuring 10 girls and a group of knowing friends, anyone? -- and I'm probably not winning any fans right now. That's not the role I'm trying to take on here, but it seems like a lot of otherwise-sharp people are being played a bit during recent weeks.
Think about the 38-year-old women (or moms) you know, and decide for yourself what choice they'd make in a similar situation. If you come to the conclusion that they'd come here for information, please introduce them to me, because they'd probably be a lot of fun to play with.
But feel free to decide for yourself whether this is on the level or not.
Cheers, DL
Still a good read.
To the OP.. Just put your shoes away, and don't embarrass the young man.
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I don't think the OP is real either but it is still an interesting topic.
I "borrowed" a few shoes as a kid too. Coincidentally, my name is Tim. Nowadays I feel very guilty about it (as I should). However this kid probably would grow out of it.
In this hypothetical situation I'm not sure what the mother should do. Letting it go on doesn't seem right but I'm not sure what confronting him about it would accomplish.
He's 12, so how else could he explore this fetish? You can't exactly recommend that he got to a prostitute or a porn website. It would probably make the most sense to talk to his mother and try and keep the fathers out of it.
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I think it's fake!! But I didn't think that initially
I think this person wants to get off at the responses..
did you see the e-mail listed for 'JustVisiting's profile?
motherofone@live.com
that is a pretty odd name for an e-mail address. I feel that the email is only to go along with people who are skeptical. This person is smart...
why would she come to this site when she can ask her 'wonderful husband' That 'wonderful husband' might not be into feet but he could give her an answer
JustVisiting is an odd name too...not only is this person trying to disguise who they are, they are also trying to disguise their intentions....just my two cents fellas.
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