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Sex involving feet IS normal sex to me. If you're with a chick that hates having her feet touched and thinks your love for feet is weird? You're with the wrong girl... Sex has to be pleasurable for both involved.
I've had sex without feet involved. It took forever to get off and I had to do a LOT of thinking about hot chicks I knew with sexy feet. Aint worth it...
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quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: Have sex with her and involve positions that involve her feet( missionary, throw her feet up by your face and gently kiss them, doggy style, grab her by ankles to be able to look at the soles while you fuck her) then the more you fuck her the more you start incorporating her feet into sex she'll get the hint. Probably be more accepting of it too if you make her cum, as opposed to just sitting her down and dropping a bomb like that on her or giving her a foot rub and just start sucking her toes...it'll be a rare woman that would like that by the way. Think about it, chick offers to give you a massage and just starts sucking on your toes it'd creep you out no?
Apparently I typed chinese because you disregarded this advice. You say you have a problem getting hard/keeping it hard because you are not touching feet/seeing them during sex or sexual activities, I just solved your dilemma. You are not alone in the fact that you need feet involved during sex, every guy with a foot fetish is the same.
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No I didn't disregard your advice bluetoelover, it is very good advice, what I want is too be able to have normal vanilla sex without feet involved but I have noticed it takes me a lot of effort to get an erection & when I do it's not 100% hard & throughout sex I have to think about feet, & thinking about keeping it up, it's very frustrating to me because the sex is not rough or satisfying to me or the girl, obviously if they started putting there feet in my face I would get harder & shag harder but that means feet are gonna have to always be involved, I guess what I'm saying is I wish I could have normal sex in a passionate good way, what I was wondering is can you guys do that or do feet need to be involved. This girl I like I just can't leave her alone she is so caring to me, been there for me, & I know she wants me to shag her so bad but as you know she doesn't think much of feet, it's a shame her feet are actually small & pretty, I rubbed them once even though she was jumpy a bit but her feet are very soft & smooth, anyways no way she would be cool with me sucking/kissing them, I'm being honest guys I think I'm not good at sex if it don't involve feet so it would be a huge let down for her, I know deep down she's a liar but at the same time I do believe she has feelings for me or she wouldn't of chased me for 2 years, in bed with me she hugs me so tight & gives me tons of kisses, she has gave me loads of handjobs, I actually think she deserves a good fucking from me to be honest, it's frustrating me so much because I 99% know if I said I have a foot fetish and during sex I want them in my face she would be horrified.
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quote:Originally posted by Fair Adam: [QB] Please don't even think about suicide, it would only hurt those who love you, like your friends and family.
It will end his pain though.
I'm a somewhat similar boat as you, OP. Somewhat. I wouldn't say foot fetish eliminates my attraction to other parts of the female form, but it is a source of anxiety for me. Always has been. Probably because I had it when I was a toddler and was encouraged to hide it by my mother. So I got used to that and I've hid it ever since.
I understand the crisis you are having about loneliness and relationships. Again, I'm in pretty much the same boat you are but a year older. However I think the solution is to understand how I got this far: I'm really just not that compatible with most people. Even if I had a significant other I think I'd become sick and tired of them in a short time. I'm a very solitary person.
Reach out to others if you must. Rejection, if you find it in some cases, won't be nearly as painful as you imagine it to be. Otherwise, do what I do and enjoy the porn and distract yourself with things you enjoy.
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quote:Originally posted by Thisisme4373: No I didn't disregard your advice bluetoelover, it is very good advice, what I want is too be able to have normal vanilla sex without feet involved but I have noticed it takes me a lot of effort to get an erection & when I do it's not 100% hard & throughout sex I have to think about feet, & thinking about keeping it up, it's very frustrating to me because the sex is not rough or satisfying to me or the girl, obviously if they started putting there feet in my face I would get harder & shag harder but that means feet are gonna have to always be involved, I guess what I'm saying is I wish I could have normal sex in a passionate good way, what I was wondering is can you guys do that or do feet need to be involved. This girl I like I just can't leave her alone she is so caring to me, been there for me, & I know she wants me to shag her so bad but as you know she doesn't think much of feet, it's a shame her feet are actually small & pretty, I rubbed them once even though she was jumpy a bit but her feet are very soft & smooth, anyways no way she would be cool with me sucking/kissing them, I'm being honest guys I think I'm not good at sex if it don't involve feet so it would be a huge let down for her, I know deep down she's a liar but at the same time I do believe she has feelings for me or she wouldn't of chased me for 2 years, in bed with me she hugs me so tight & gives me tons of kisses, she has gave me loads of handjobs, I actually think she deserves a good fucking from me to be honest, it's frustrating me so much because I 99% know if I said I have a foot fetish and during sex I want them in my face she would be horrified.
Well if your dick won't get hard then she'll start to maybe suspect that you're gay. Would you rather that or have her know that you need her feet? Can you get up by looking at her feet? If so, then put a pillow under her lower back and go into the missionary position. Start with her feet on your chest and then grab her ankles and pull them into view. That position is known to really stimulate a woman.
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I don't just get automatically hard from looking at her feet it's like I need stimulation also, I need to jack it got a bit, it's like this depression or my testosterone is very low, i feel very anxious about sex because I think it's gonna be a flop which is making it harder to stay erect, also yeah I'm thinking she maybe thinks I'm gay for not shagging her yet. Honestly dudes I feel hopeless, I'm really down about all this.
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You need to embrace your love for feet then. Easier said then done sure, but being ashamed about something you can't change about yourself isn't going to get you anywhere. Sit her down for a serious talk then, you don't have to go into crazy details of what you want to do to her feet but tell her your strong love for pretty feet, quickly remind her that its not just her feet that you love but her whole body and go from there. Ask her if you could start slow into it by giving her a foot rub. Then after doing that for awhile give her pecks on her toes not full on slobbering. Then just steadily ramp it up from there. If she truly likes you she'll embrace it too. Remember, your not asking to tie her up stick shit up her ass, it's just feet.
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rarely do I have sex that does not involve feet in some respect, whether it is foreplay or all out assault feet in my face as I come. My lady not only understands I have this super attraction to her feet and the aroma they emit, but absolutely loves all the attention I give her feet...sexual or not. Sometimes, we are just laying in bed half way asleep and she throws a leg over mine to give my access to her soft foot because she knows I will not refuse to rub that gorgeous little puppy. It's part of our life, feet in sex is normal sex for us. I'm sorry you have yet to find that special lady, but you have to be open about in a good way and you might surprise yourself.
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I have still been seeing this girl, she lets me rub her feet a lot now, honestly her feet are so sexy, they are perfectly shaped, the soles are so soft, her toes are all perfectly shaped, but she doesn't do them up, she's not really into the foot rubs but I think she knows I like doing it so lets me, there's still the big problem of the fact that I know deep down she's a liar, she sees other guys n always messaging, hiding her phone etc, it's complicated because I have feelings for her & cannot leave her alone.
I'm suffering with bad depression, it makes me feel really down & lonely which makes it impossible to leave her alone, I have become quite clingy Infact.
I have also started reading online about circumcision as I had that when younger, it says that loads of sexual nerves are amputated, this has made me further depressed as this could be why I struggle to get aroused? My life is such a mess...
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You're gonna have to make a decision...Either your are going to take control of your life or not...You are creating a mental environment that is like a vacuum and it's going to be hard to escape unless you reprogram your mind...You are 27 and very young man...Your problems are all in your mind AND THEY ARE ONLY AS BIG AS YOU SAY THEY ARE...Also the way that you are acting about the young lady is creating an environment that's going to be destructive for you...THE ENERGY THAT YOU ARE GIVING OFF WILL MAKE HER WORSE...Here are a few simple things that should help and some have been expressed to you already..
1. STOP JACKING OFF PERIOD... 2. START WORKING OUT, LIFTING WEIGHTS (naturally boosts testosterone)
3. Stop being so soft and emotional...man up because women hate crying and complaining men.. 4. Demand what you want out of your girl... 5. Learn to love yourself...This is the only way a woman can love you... 6. Don't be a Sleb Rock (from the Flintstones) No one likes being a round a person who is always depressed because the energy field around them is a downer. Remember that negative energy can be felt by those around you...If you don't create the right energy field, LADIES WILL BE RUNNING FROM YOU....
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