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Thin or plus size? With equal everything? My answer: Thin. That was your answer, too. So what's the problem?
Thick or plus size girls is borderline fat. Or they are fat without the obese part. Either way, it's the same thing. But at the same time, calling them plus size doesn't make them any more slim at the same time. Those were the ones who I was exactly referring to in my posts. I call them overweight because they are. They look more fat than skinny, so I call them fat. So what. Plus size girls make the scales scream, too. I also said we don't want anorexics. We prefer the women who I listed in my last posts.
Fat girls are lazy. If they weren't, they wouldn't let go of themselves the way they do.
Again, plus size girls cannot be cheerleaders for any team.
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Haha ok man, I see this is a sensitive topic for you. I was agreeing with you and you still get all defensive.
We get it, you hate overweight, thick, fat, obese girls. I feel bad for your wife, if you have one. Heaven forbid she gains weight during a pregnancy or menopause, you might rip her head off haha
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And I wasn't asking you the thick or thin question btw...I was trying to simplify the thread for the rest of the class
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Way to miss the point, DSW :/ Yes, I recognise that there are plenty of skinny women with a lot of personality - that was not my point. I know a lot of lovely skinny women, and I know plenty of wonderful curvy and chubby women, but my point still stands - over the snooty, skinny bitch or the warm-hearted and genuine chubby woman, who would you rather date? My point would be a bit pointless if I switched it around, wouldn't it?
Yes, suprisingly enough, they chose Jade Goody's body over a thin body. Why? Because some men, or most men in the UK in this case, prefer a woman with something to hold onto. And on top of that you have basically compared women like Jade Goody to women like Milla Monroe or April Flores - there is a BIG gap between curvy/chubby and obese. There's curvy, chubby, overweight, grossly overweight, obese and grossly obese, and there's all sorts for different men and women.
Also, plus sized girls making the scales scream? If I were three inches taller I would be the ideal weight for my height, and I am a plus sized girl. The scales are hardly screaming, and I don't have no respect for my body - I love the way I look, and I enjoy food. What's the problem in that? Suddenly women aren't allowed to enjoy things, they have to be completely focused on their image all the time? Seems a bit strange to me, to be honest.
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quote:Originally posted by Jammy: Way to miss the point, DSW :/ Yes, I recognise that there are plenty of skinny women with a lot of personality - that was not my point. I know a lot of lovely skinny women, and I know plenty of wonderful curvy and chubby women, but my point still stands - over the snooty, skinny bitch or the warm-hearted and genuine chubby woman, who would you rather date? My point would be a bit pointless if I switched it around, wouldn't it?
This is like asking if you rather go out with a plus size girl or a slim woman who has a dick attached to her? Stop wording the questions in where the stipulations are set up so that men have literally no choice but to pick the fat girl. Why must you ask that question? Because you know that if the circumstances were equal, men would pick the slim ones over the overweight ones. To answer your question, anyway, I will pick the skinny one. Especially because since you tried manipulating me into picking the overweight chick. If the question was if BOTH were too bitchy, who would you pick? If both were kind, down-to-earth women, who would you pick? If the FAT one was cruel, and the slim one was very nice and kind, who would you date? In all three question, the majority will pick the slim one. You know it, I know it, the world knows it. You see, in the first two questions, men will pick the slim ones naturally. In that last question, same thing. The difference is that with the last question, men won't feel manipulated into making a choice because the slim one was going to get chosen anyhow. With your question, you word it in a way in where just about every guy on the planet will have to go against his will. Make the circumstances equal, and we'll see which weight class wins.
Overweight women discombobulate these questions only so that they can feel better about themselves when deep inside they feel rejected by the world outside. These questions masquerades them from the truth that men prefer slim women. Not anorexic. That's disgusting! Nor am I talking about women who are big enough to model clothes for Lane Bryant. I'm talking about the ideal weight range. Those in between like Christina Aguilera, Eva Mendes, Jessica Alba, Marisa Miller. You cannot name a famous overweight woman who is hotter than any of them (or any of those hot enough to appear on Maxim, FHM, Playboy, Perfect 10, even Cosmopolitan, Seventeen, and Women's Health. So that should already tell you that men prefer those who are kept in shape.
quote:Originally posted by Jammy: Yes, suprisingly enough, they chose Jade Goody's body over a thin body. Why? Because some men, or most men in the UK in this case, prefer a woman with something to hold onto. And on top of that you have basically compared women like Jade Goody to women like Milla Monroe or April Flores - there is a BIG gap between curvy/chubby and obese. There's curvy, chubby, overweight, grossly overweight, obese and grossly obese, and there's all sorts for different men and women.
I had to google those names to see who they were, and those women are disgusting! What the hell do these women drink? Cooking oil? Just because Goody is not as fat as them does not excuse her from the hook. She is still guilty as charged. Fat girls don't get fat unless they were like Goody first. Like I said, Lane Bryant girls are disqualified because they, too, can't compete against women who are in shape like the celebs I mentioned. Jane Goody is NOT hotter than any of those Maxim-like girls. You're not fooling into thinking that Goody is THAT hot.
quote:Originally posted by Jammy: Also, plus sized girls making the scales scream? If I were three inches taller I would be the ideal weight for my height, and I am a plus sized girl. The scales are hardly screaming, and I don't have no respect for my body - I love the way I look, and I enjoy food. What's the problem in that? Suddenly women aren't allowed to enjoy things, they have to be completely focused on their image all the time? Seems a bit strange to me, to be honest.
"If I were three inches taller, I would be blah, blah, blah." Excuses, excuses. TRUST me, the scales are screaming. If a slim girl were to trample on some guy, and a an overweight girl (yes, Lane Bryant girls ARE overweight, too) went to trample on the same person, who's more likely to break his bones? Who's more likely to put more pressure on him? It's not the skinny one. So, yeah, your scale IS screaming.
You love the way you look? Okay. Just know that women your size are not the ones that are the hot commodities. Sex sells. Slim women sell it better than those who are overweight.
You also said you feel good about yourself. I will bet you just about anything that you will feel MUCH better if you lost that weight. Not only will you feel better, you will also LOOK better, get MORE attention from guys, and be able to run faster. Think about it. When someone loses the weight, people close to you will treat it as if it were a celebration. If you put the weight back on after losing the weight, then they feel let down. No more celebration.
There's a difference between feeling good and feeling BETTER.
I would like to repeat what I said yesterday:
Besides, women like Brooklyn Decker and Christina Aguilera are four times more likely to sexually excite men than overweight women. Overweight women are three times more likely to sexually excite men UNsuccessfully than the slimmer ones.
Typical. You can replace the words "sexually excite men" with whatever you want and it would still be accurate.
Before I go, I'm going to apologize to "mclaren f1 2003." I did read your post. It's just that when I got to the sentence where you mentioned an overweight girlfriend, I stopped reading before I completed that sentence because I thought you were going to say something that would completely ho against what you said in the paragraph before it. The other thing was I thought you were trying to ask me the "thick and thin" question. You do agree with me that the thin ones will get picked and that your girlfriend works out to get the weight off. Yes, good for her.
Before I go, let me remind everyone that the newest issue of Maxim is out now in newsstands everywhere. Get your copy today.
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quote:Originally posted by DSW: Before I go, I'm going to apologize to "mclaren f1 2003." I did read your post. It's just that when I got to the sentence where you mentioned an overweight girlfriend, I stopped reading before I completed that sentence because I thought you were going to say something that would completely ho against what you said in the paragraph before it. The other thing was I thought you were trying to ask me the "thick and thin" question. You do agree with me that the thin ones will get picked and that your girlfriend works out to get the weight off. Yes, good for her.
Before I go, let me remind everyone that the newest issue of Maxim is out now in newsstands everywhere. Get your copy today.
apology accepted. you are right, ALL OTHER THINGS BEING EQUAL, most guys will pick the slim girl over the overweight one. theres no way around that.
i agree with you AND im usually more attracted to women with "meat on their bones", but theres still no way around the above fact
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I do not like fat women. I say fat. I don't mean plus size. 10/12 isn't a problem.
But if we're going to ask how I feel about bbw women, the answer is easy: They didn't take care of their bodies and it looks like it.
What makes a woman too big?
Easy: When they lose their womanly shape. See, my girl has some weight on her, but it's just right. It's all in her ass and breasts. It gives her a nice curve. But once a woman gets too much, they lose that form, and they become just a blob of mass.
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I agree with every singe thing DSW said. Great job! It was also very funny reading the things he said. The part where he said that slim women are four times more likely to sexually excite men than the overweight ones was hilarious! I replaced the words "sexually excite men" with whatever I wanted and he's right. It's still accurate. They can very well be four times more likely to get the job they were both applying for, assuming that both were perfectly qualified for the job in question. I would think they want eye candy at the secretary's desk or something.
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In any event, let me say something to the overweight ladies. You probably believe that personality is more important than appearance and you're right to SOME extent. But the problem is: how do you attract the right man in the first place in order to dazzle him with your wit and charm? You can improve the way you present yourself without having to compromise your beliefs. Joining a gym to improve your body shape WILL increase your attractiveness to men, but will also make you feel fitter, healthier, and give you a greater zest for life. The male factor could be an added bonus! You may say you're not interested in a man who's so shallow as to be hypnotized by physical appearance. The problem with that, however, is that even the most intellectual and sensitive of men are at the mercy of their biology, at least at first. Men can't help being attractive to the obvious female hot body. Why not work with this -- however much you dislike it -- to improve your appearance and end up with a GREATER range of men to choose from?
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i could care less about what u look like when it comes to feet!!!As long as hey are well taken care of and as long as they are naturally beautiful and clean then im good!!! Ive had a beautiful friend who was about 5'9 250...she carried the weight very well and her feet were perfect..we had great fun...And she was 1 of the best all around sexual experiences that i ever had...IM EXTREMELY FIT AND I FIND ALL SHAPES SIZES AND COLORS OF WOMEN ATTRACTIVE....PRETTY FEET ARE PRETTY FEET...WHO CARES WHATS ABOVE THE ANKLES!!!!
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You still "read" Maxim, DSW? How quaint. I haven't seen anyone over the age of fourteen "read" that in years. Haha.
And BBWs quite often have gorgeous feet, lovely soft soles and plump toes ripe for sucking. That isn't to say "big girls have better feet" but I find myself more attracted to plus size girl's feet than others.
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So, National, if I want a job then I am going to have to try harder than a slim woman who may have less qualifications than I do? If I have a greater portfolio of work than a slim woman, is she still more likely to get the job? Are you telling me that if I don't lose the 15 lbs that make me plus size, I'm never going to get a job because all those slim women are applying and because they LOOK nice, and may not produce good work, they will get hired? I highly doubt what you just said is true.
And, no, National - while I think that personality is more important than looks, I have found a man who finds me beautiful just the way I am. Why do I need to change when I have everything I want in life? I am perfectly happy just the way I am and dieting makes me depressed, so I'm happy staying how I am, thank you.
And finally, DSW - you've written a small essay for me so I'm just going to address one or two points -
1. I trample my boyfriend, who is slim, quite a lot. You're telling me I've broken his bones by trampling on him? The logistics of it may work in your head, but bigger women don't have to put ALL their weight down - I certainly don't, because I know what the consequences are going to be, and that is that I'm going to hurt him.
2. I sexually excite my boyfriend perfectly enough, thank you, and considering that I get compliments from men around me at college rather often I would think that I wouldn't have any problem exciting them, too.
3. Looking at the first part of your post, I have to re-iterate, again. They thought her BODY was attractive, not her FACE. I think she's pig ugly, but her body type is one that men prefered. They were not shown the FACES of any of the celebrities, just their bodies. I'm not saying that the other celebrities didn't get being saying they preffered that - the majority said they liked Jade Goody's body.
Also, have you noticed that there are other magazines on the top shelves for men who prefer bigger women? They keep them in seperate magazines, because yes - some men prefer slim women. You really can't argue that they don't get into Playboy or Maxim (which as Martial Law states is generally only read by 14 year olds) because they aren't attractiv enough - their body type is for a different demographic to the ones that read mainstream mags. Doesn't that make sense when you think about it? Maybe the majority of people you know prefer these slim celebrities, and maybe the majority of Americans do, but do you really think ALL men like slim women? Every single man would turn their nose up at a BBW or a curvy woman? I think not - because April Flores and Milla Monroe, however gross you think they are, have pretty successfull modelling careers - April Flores was even on the front cover of Bizarre magazine a few months back.
I'm not even going to humour you any more, mate. Most of your arguments have holes in them, and where's the fun in that? You're all pseudo-psychology and opinion turned fact, completely ignoring the glaringly obvious.
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